Single females,have you ever been friends with a married man?

Question

Have you ever been friends with a married and you never met his wife?

Is it okay for a married man to hang out with a single female alone?

Would you consider it even though deep down you know its platonic friendship?

Answer 1

welll... Im married.. I have a lot of single males friends.. .. as long as you  keep distance from them.. stay friends with them.. fine..

I really dont know what ur point..

Answer 2

Yes plenty of times but rarely spent much time alone with them.  It's okay for a married man to do anything he wants as long as he's not cheating.  I wouldn't consider anything unless I was faced with that issue.

Answer 3

It's not alright to hang out with single women. Your married and should be spending your time with her. Those other women are complete DOLTS!

Business meetings with the opposite s*x are unavoidable HOWEVER, social gatherings are and you should.

Answer 4

i am friends with married men and it is platonic

Answer 5

I'm divorced, so I guess that qualifies me as single.  My answers are all based on my time as a single person, not when I was married.

Single females,have you ever been friends with a married man?  Yes.

Have you ever been friends with a married and you never met his wife?  No, never.

Is it okay for a married man to hang out with a single female alone? Only if it's a work situation and the wife is aware and knows the female in question (if possible), IMO.

Would you consider it even though deep down you know its platonic friendship?  No, I wouldn't.  I'm of the belief that a married couple is a package deal when it comes to having anything to do with the husband.  I wouldn't hang out with anyone's husband without them present.  The closest I've come is going to my best friend's house to work on her computer while her husband was home and she wasn't.  She knew I was there and arrived home after I'd been there for about 1/2 hour.  I also helped the same husband shop for a 25th wedding anniversary gift for her.  She secretly knew that I was going with him to do that.  I won't take any chances for problems to arise as a result of me... even when I know I won't do anything out of line.  The potential drama isn't worth it.

Years ago I was accused of having an affair with a woman's husband.  I was married at the time and we had done nothing wrong... not so much as flirt with him, nor he with me.  Since then, I have chosen to not put myself in a position where that could happen again.  They did divorce and even though nothing happened between me and the husband and I didn't feel responsible for their problems, I did feel horrible that she thought it happened.