I need some advice about my current sister-in-law situation. I am an only child and was happy to be gaining a new brother-in-law (my husband’s brother) and sister-in-law (husband’s brother’s wife). However, the animosity from this girl towards me started from the get-go. My husband and I got engaged first and then they stole our thunder and got engaged 3 weeks later (after 1 month of dating). Then, they raced to alter to be married before us, USING THE SAME DESTINATION WEDDING SPOT we had already planned and booked. Then, we showed up to the reception and this girl had used the SAME COLORS as we had already planned. Needless to say, no one was excited or surprised when our wedding came along. She didn’t even attend my bridal shower or wedding reception because ‘she didn’t feel like it’.
However, I have tried not to dwell on all of these things and be nice to her. When we’re at family gatherings, she will not speak to me or even look at me. If I ask her a question directly or try to start a conversation, she will address the room with an answer, change the subject, or ignore me altogether. For the life of me, I can’t figure out what I have done wrong. I don’t want to even try anymore because I look like an idiot trying to kiss her butt. Does anyone have any advice?
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