i know i already asked it but im still at a loss with what to do/say about/to her.
Ok, I'm 17 and if you read through my questions I have been with my fiance since just before I was 16, I know things seem rushed but that isnt the point.
since me and my fiance started going out his sister in law got really jealous of me she said my fiance didnt spend any time with her any more and he wasnt a real friend. the only reason he ever spent time with her was to keep the family happy because she is a trouble making *****. they sort of have history in the sense that she broke up with his brother for 3 weeks, he put a roof over her head because thats the kind of guy he is and she got him drunk (like semi unconscious drunk) and had s*x with him, all he remembers is waking up and seeing her and a used rubber, he told her to leave and that was the end of it, he was a virgin until then and would never do something like that to his brother even if they werent together, he is a good person and was waiting for marriage before s*x.
any way, my point is she was planning her wedding when i met my man and we were friends for like 6 months first and she didnt have a problem, as soon as it got around that we were "going out" my mum started to get abusive messages saying **** like "how could you let your daughter be with such a disgusting man, he is so much older" blah blah blah and i was getting ones saying "your a littl s/ut, w h**e, *****..." things like that, its been nearly 2 years now and the messages havent stopped for me even when i change my number i still get them. i changed my number this time and didnt give it to my fiances brother and havent gotten any messages (i know its not his brother because he is really nice to me).
we go to my fiances parents every saturday night for dinner and she gives me really evil looks and wont be in the same room as me.
i have honest to god never done anything to her, like when she sent the messages yeah i got defensive but nothing major.
we have to go out my their sons 1st birthday on sunday and my fiance wont go without me.
perfect example, we went to the doctor yesterday and seh came in, didnt have her son with her but sat in the childrens area because we were in the waiting room..
what can i do to sort things out. im so over her ****.
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point 1: he was already half drunk when she showed up, she influenced him to drink more.
point 2: no one in his family knows.
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its not the family, its only her.
his mum and dad: own a dairy, have 4 sons, live a quiet life, hate her as much as the next person.
his eldest brother: married the *****, knew she was cheating on him, has a son that might not be his.
his younger brother: lives in a different state, i dont know him
his youngest brother: lives at home, never had a girl friend...
none of them have a problem with me... its only the sister inlaw
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