Sister is dating an anti social man ...

Question

My sister and I used to be close until she started dating this guy who is really hard to talk to and get to know. He doesn't entertain any conversation...it's completely one sided (my side). I rack my brain to try to talk to him and to find something in common...my family is nice to him as well, but he just isn't friendly. We all feel as though he really doesn't like us, but he doesn't have any legitimate reasons to feel that way. Should I back off and just let it be? My sister and I aren't as close anymore...I hate it. What approach is the best?

Answer 1

If your sister want to be in contact with you then she will be.  Her husband being anti-social only affects your relationship with him and not your sister and your relationship.  I think that perhaps there is something more to it than that.

Answer 2

he may be shy and takes a long time to warm to people.  how long has it been?