Sisters 3 year old daughter won't potty train, why?

Question

My sis has tried everything, the 3 year old will sit on the toilet for an hour and pee in her pull up soon as she gets it back on. I know she's young and its probably normal, but are there any cool suggestions that have worked for others.

Answer 1

Take her to the pre-school and show her what she'll be missing out on if she can't pull herself together.  Humiliation is always a good motivator.  Just kidding.  I don't think you can force it.  They just have to want to do it.

Answer 2

"The following are some potty training tips that will make your potty training easier and fun:

    * Make a big deal about using the last diaper or let your child help you throw out the diapers in the trash can. Shop together for new underwear!

    * Dress your child in clothes that are easy to take on and off.

    * Never punish or scold your child for accidents.

    * If your child can't produce anything after 5 minutes of sitting on the potty, its time to try later.

    * Train your child to wash his/her hands after using the potty.

    * Change diapers and/or accidents as soon as possible. Explain the need to stay nice and dry. After awhile your child will want to stay nice and dry.

    * Do not punish your child by keeping him/her in wet or soiled diapers. This is counterproductive and will not teach your child to use the potty.

    * If your child is old enough to dress him/herself, have your child change into dry underwear all by him/herself. Your child may be reluctant to wet his/her pants if he/she knows that he/she will have to do all the work. Be kind, nonchalantly instruct your child to put the wet ones in the sink, and put on a new pair.

    * Have a stack of clean, dry underwear in a handy place for your child to change when he/she wets (provided your child is capable).

    * Do not pressure or nag your child to use the potty. The harder you push, the harder he/she will resist!

    * Bring your child on an hourly basis when starting with a young child, to encourage practice. Consistency is key!

    * Instead of saying "Do you have to use the potty?" Say, "It's time to use the potty." This gets your child in the routine of going on a regular basis.

    * With older children, only remind your child to use the potty when he/she is showing signs that he/she has to go.You want to try to let it be their success, not yours.

    * Never force your child to use the potty.

    * Let your child put wet underwear in a designated place, such as the sink or laundry basin and instruct your child to get and put on new ones.

    * All caregivers should use the same approach and method for potty training.

    * If using cotton underwear, buy more than one 3 pack (9 pairs should be good)! Also, it is sometimes helpful to buy the underwear one to two sizes bigger so it is easier for your child to pull-up and down (also, because they shrink!).

    * Be prepared to spend some time in the bathroom with your child!

    * Spring and summer is a great time for potty training! Let your child go without his/her diaper.

    * Make sure your child's diet has plenty of fresh fruit, vegetables and juice.

Your child is trained when he/she goes to the potty without any assistance or reminders from you! "

Oh and tell your sister to go to the library and research potty training books.  If you have this program called Parents as Teachers (ask your social revenue service aka SRS about it)  and they can provide your sis with more information on potty training. I'll send a prayer to your sis and her kiddo, God bless.

Answer 3

Obviously she isn't READY to potty train.  She doesn't NEED to be potty trained, the pre school requires enrollees to be potty trained there IS a difference.  The child hasn't learned to equate a wet pull up to sitting on the toilet.  She obviously doesn't realize what it is that is done on the toilet.  She's not ready.