Size question. Girls answer too please.?

Question

Ok, so no, this is not a joke.

It's a legitimate question that has been bothering me.

I'm 13 and on a swimming team in my town.

And well I'm still pretty early on in puberty, and I don't know I guess I'm kind of insecure and after practice I've been curious about size. Not like in a g*y way, but anyways. I've looked around the changing room after practice and noticed that the other guys my age, aren't longer than me (my you know) but like a lot thicker. Even some that don't have any hair. I mean i don't have but a little hair, but I don't know.

A friend told me that thickness is the only part of size that matters so now I'm worried.

Is thickness really a big deal?

Will I be able to be good at s*x?

It's a for real question.

Please don't make fun.

Answer 1

you're too young to tell. Honestly, wait a few years. you have a lot of growing and maturing to do. Hopefully you're not planning on having s*x any time soon. In a few years your body will be more mature and you will be more confident. If you're feeling insecure about your body, you won't enjoy s*x...wait till you're at least 17 or 18. Trust me...if any of your friends claim they're having s*x, they're lying. just enjoy being a kid. you don't have much time left.  

Answer 2

its all in technique

Answer 3

Most guys "willies" are about the same size when erect. There are small size diferences, but the differences are in millimetres and not worthy of note.

Some are larger than others when flaccid but should not be a concern.

Its not so much the size when making love but the "heat in the meat".

When its your time for s*x you will now exactly what to do, just remember to take your time and learn from your experiences.

Apart from all that, enjoy and practice safe s*x.

Answer 4

I'm a woman.  Don't worry about this.  13-year olds are not yet mature physically so whatever you (and they) look like now, both in length and thickness, is going to change.

Yes, of course you'll be able to be good at s*x!  p***s size does not determine this.  The kind of man you are, the feelings between you and your lovers, how much attention you pay to what your lovers want and need and feel - all of this is a zillion times more important than p***s size.

Now that might sound like a cliche, but cliches become well known because they are usually true!

The vast majority of grown men fall into a range where the average p***s is 5 - 7 inches long when erect, so there also has to be an average range for thickness.  The odds are overwhelming that when you're fully grown you will be in the normal range - and also, that right now you are in the normal range for your age group.

Answer 5

haha

you were looking at the other swimmers stuff?

lol

omg your funny dude.

thickness is not that big of a deal and being good at s*x doesn't necessarily mean you have like SUPER p***s .

lol

lmfao kid you are sooo funny

and nerdy

:)

-rianna

Answer 6

its all in technique.

it really is.

Answer 7

You needn't worry. A women's v****a has muscles in it to allow the p***s to enter (no matter the size). You don't want to obsess over your p***s. Whatever size or girth you have is fine, because the v****a has nerve endings only up to 2 inches. Unless you have a p***s less than 2 inches, then all is good. Don't let your friends fill your head with falsehoods. Good luck

Answer 8

size really isn't what matters...

girls dont really have much feeling inside anyway, it's outside of it that causes a climax (the C**t)

Answer 9

you need to stop worrying really you will be fine so stop

honestly stop

Answer 10

Tyler,

You have a long way to go.  It's normal to be curious about how you compare to other guys your age, so don't worry about that.  There's no way to determine how big you'll be when you're finished growing.  We all pretty much finish up the same, and there's no reason to think that you'll be that one guy who doesn't.  Don't worry about this anymore - you're normal.

BTW, I was a breast-stroker and free-styler in high school.

Answer 11

It's not size or thinkness that matters but what U do with it that counts the most.

& since U're only 13 & will still be growing, I wouldn't worry about it right now.

Wait until U're 21 & then ask the question again if it (U'RE U KNOW WHAT) hasn't change, lol.

We all grow at our own speed & time so be patient bud.

Chow.  

Answer 12

Don't worry about size(length or girth)it will be what it will be. What you need to concentrate on is your style and technique of lovemaking. I have learned to drive a woman crazy with desire and climax many times without ever having intercourse. That should be your main goal, then she won't even care about size.

Answer 13

Well it matters some.  Maybe the other boys play with themselves more?  It's a muscle and tends to thicken the more it's "exercised".  I know that sounds completely dirty, but I'm serious.

Answer 14

If you're longer it doesn't hurt. You're only 13 so you'll get thicker since you're still in puberty, since you say you're longer, you're ahead of the game. Don't feel too insecure about it. Does you (you know) affect how you swim? When your 17, other guys will probably be intimidated by you.

Answer 15

the size of it flaccid does not matter , the erected length and thickness is the most important. Guys with thick flaccid manhood are getting slightly bigger one while erected and those with smaller flaccid ones are entering to a bigger change shape

so you can not tell the difference unless you compare erected manhoods

Answer 16

Totally disregard the second answer you've gotten.  Everyone should know that the p***s is NOT a muscle and playing with it is not going to make it grow.

The person that gave you that answer doesn't have a clue.

Answer 17

You are fine!

How big you will get depends on testosterone levels. The higher the more it grows. For example. Boys with micropenia (very small p***s) are treated by putting testosterone cream on the p***s or by injections. Do not do this without a doctor. The best thing is to eat healthy. Fruit and veggies. Pumpkin seed and Pistachios as well as other things raise testosterone levels.

Easy on the sweets. No smoking! How big you get pepends on how big your father and your mothers father is. That is the genetics that controls how high your testosterone level will get.