Sleeping round my best friends house way too much (in my eyes) i feel awkward?

Question

Well ive slept round this girls house (best friend) for for a week and 3 days now (im at home now) and i feel really awkward because i feel like im intruding.

The thing is i could go home at about 1 in the morning after sleeping round, then at about 6-7 she rings me up asking if i want to sleep round again, she says that her family isn't getting annoyed (cos im good friends with her brother aswell) but i still feel like they are...

I love goin round there its such a great family (the mum, the dad, the brother and the sister), my parents have split up and my older brothers and sisters have their own house now so at home its just me and my mum - and even then my mums out at work all day so im always home alone when im at home.

She's already asked me to sleep round again tonight! when i was leaving hers :S

How would you feel if you were in my shoes right now? Great family, the girl in the family keeps inviting me over, but unsure wether the parents are getting annoyed over it?

Answer 1

I would ask the parents how they feel and tell them how you feel as well.

Answer 2

You didn't mention your age. It doesn't sound appropriate though, and I'd think if you were hanging out with her brother, and slept over on an occasional weekend it would be no big deal...you're virtually living there though and you have your own home so there's no need for that. It's not like you're trying to escape abuse or poverty.

Visit over there if you want, but get home at a reasonable hour and spend more time in your own bed. That family may be a kewl group of people, but they don't need another child to raise and feed.

Answer 3

if YOU want to stay over and she keeps inviting you, then stay over! If her parents have a problem with it then they should tell her to cool it. But if they've stayed silent, be grateful for their generosity and make the most of it!

Answer 4

The girl is maybe trying to make fun out of you.

If I were in your shoes I would have waited for a pretty long time before going to her place.

Try to find out if she is genuinly attractive towards you or not.

For this ignoe her for about 1 week ,if she keeps on chasing you then you will know that you are onthe right track.

Trust me I have been in an even worse condition.

Answer 5

I guess the girl like you..!

Answer 6

I wouldn't worry too much my daughters best friend sleeps here 3-4 times a week in holidays and at least once a week in term time. We don't mind they are no trouble but if I was bothered I would just say to my daughter not to ask her friend over so much and I would set a limit. If it really bothers you and you get on well with the parents ask them - just be honest say you just wanted to check you were not outstaying your welcome but if you don't feel you can do this get the brother to ask them for you.

Answer 7

If I felt like you do I would ask the Mum and Dad how they felt about it and then go on from there, just be sure that they are not tolerating you simply because you don't have much of a home life yourself