Slept with one of my good friend's friend, now he is acting all weird?

Question

I've been good friends with this guy for almost 3 years and about a few weeks ago he took me out with some of his guy buddies and I took a liking to one his friends whome I never met before (He has only been friends with this guy for a few months) His friend was flirting with me all night and asked me out by the end of the evening. I was very flattered and said yes.

So we went out a week later and I got a little way too drunk and about 6 martinis later he walked me back to my apartment and we ended up having s*x, which was sooo stupid on my part, I know (at least it was safe s*x).

Anyway, I knew the guy would never call me back because this happend to me once before a long long time ago so I just erased his number the next day, but my friend is acting all weird with me now.

I don't know if his friend told him or what, but he doesn't even talk to me. I just do not get it. Why should he care for my mistake, even if he knows?

Answer 1

he probably likes you and you just slept with another guy.. and so hes hurt

Answer 2

maybe he is concerned about you but just does not know how to approach you about it.

you should try approaching him and ask him why is he acting weird all of a sudden

Answer 3

what a pain you've crossed the line and you may have lost a friend.

Guys that are Friends deem having s*x or going out with one of their mates as taboo.What you done is broken the bond  in that you may do it to another friend and as your friend had feelings for you he is hurt and distrusting of you. Get him alone, tell him you stuffed up, that he is your special friend and you what to keep it that way or you may lose him as a friend and remember for next time don't play in your own yard