Slightly annoyed at the whole ttc process?

Question

Argh, I already feel like this month is a bust. I always get sore b*****s after ovulation and some other symptoms, so I know those mean nothing. Plus, I am due for AF by Saturday and I already noticed that my b*****s are not as sore as they were the past two days, so that must mean the corpus luteum is beginning to disintegrate because once again my egg is dead and gone. If I was pregnant I assume the b*****s would just keep getting sorer, they wouldn't get better. Tell me if I am wrong.

Answer 1

Don't count yourself out yet. Everyone reacts to pregnancy differently. Just because you noticed your breast are not as sore as they were is only one of many signs and symptoms to take into account. Relax and be optimistic. It isn't over until AF shows!

Answer 2

I think to many woman worry about getting pregnant I know i did...I am still trying for a baby and i know it hard not to worry but the first two months i was really obssesed....everyone said your not going to get pregnant like that b/c your body knows so I don't track.... we don't do anything now we just have s*x every 2-3 days and wait theres no point anymore...I don't mean to sound mean or rude but just try to forget about having a baby go out have fun have s*x and then wait :) it will happen faster....Baby dust to you!!!!! I hope your pego and you might possibly be pregnant I knew plenty of people who said they felt no symptoms tell they were 2 months prego.....so good luck to you...I wish you all that I can wish!

Answer 3

You could be wrong. Not everyone has the same PG symptoms. Some people have no symptoms at all.

Answer 4

You need to just let it happen and stop worrying.  I did not get preggo this time around until I stopped keeping track of it.  I just let it happen and it did!  I thought for sure I couldn't be pregnant because I wasn't keeping track and we BD'd whenever.  

You could still be pregnant.  My b*****s did not get sore until I was 7 weeks pregnant.

Answer 5

Sweetie, I'm with you.  I'm totally annoyed after 11 months of this aggravating process trying for #1.  I'm sorry to hear about your husband's s***n results.  That sure makes it agonizing, doesn't it?  I understand your need to keep track of your cycle and BD when the timing is right.  That has been me for the last (almost) year.  This month, I tossed the thermometer in the drawer.  I've ovulated every month so I think it's likely that will continue.  I just hate getting up at 5am to temp and it's been so nice not having to set the alarm.  I ovulate on day 15 almost consistently so this month, we're BD'ing around that day and I'm keeping that thermometer in the drawer.  It's gotten to be more of a hindrance than a help and I already know I'm much less stressed than I was this time last month.  It got to be that I couldn't wait for the day to be over so I could go to sleep then wake up and temp.  How sad is it to live your life that way?  I know I'm going to get pregnant or not pregnant regardless of whether I chart so that's my philosophy this month (and I really do feel calmer) but-- that said, keep doing what works for you.  It seems like it makes you feel better and more in control to keep tabs on everything so don't stop if it's working for you!  I wish you the best of luck in your TTC efforts and just remember.  It may be taking a little longer than you'd like to conceive but it just means that God is working extra hard on creating your perfect baby.  Good luck!

Answer 6

i always have sore breast before my af is due, but this month it was a slight pain in my left breast and nothing more, found out last week I'm pregnant so anything is possible, good luck