So, I've only ever dated guys, but...?

Question

I've had crushes on girls and I'm pretty sure that I'm bi. I've told my closest friends and family, but I don't know if I'm ready to release that information to the general public. Any advice?

Answer 1

Um, you've already done the hard part. If your closest people are with you on the issue, why does anyone else matter? Maybe you should try the waters before you make the big announcement otherwise it might come out looking like you just want attention.

  I'm kinda the same way, I think society is blurring the boundaries of attraction(not that it's a bad thing). Like that Katy Perry song, 'not what good girls do'...girls are pretty and soft, they smell good and you can share clothes, they are us so they think like us and probably know better what we need in bed too. To be blunt, I don't know if I could go down tho...and there are parts of men I wouldn't want to give up.

  So if you're braver than me, and you're not already committed to someone else, go out and find what it is that makes you happy. After all, you only live once.

Answer 2

You have to absolutly make sure that you are bisexual. You might have just thought some girls were pretty looking. Do you feel the same way about a crush on a girl as you do to a guy?