Okay, so I go through baby fever spurts all the time, but when I snap back into reality I realize that I still have some things that I would like to accomplish before I have a baby. I have been married for 2 years, and my husband who is 23 now says that he is ready too, but he dosnt mind waiting either. See, I still have 2 years left of college, and we still sort of live paycheck to paycheck. We do own a home and everything, however he is military now, and he is getting out in a little over a year. Which will be good! Anyway, all of my military wife friends have babies already, and talk about how great it is, but they are still stressed about money sometimes. And, one of them seems to have a lot of money all the time, and seems to love her life, but she dosnt have any goals, they live in a creepy apartment. I just feel like they will be stuck in this situation forever, and I dont want that for myself. I dont know...I dont want to be and older mom though either. I am planning on getting pregnant in about two years from now..that way we can move, I can graduate, and we can get situated again. Plus, my husband and I want to have a nice wedding because we never had one..I got married at 18 and it was a short notice thing that we did at a court house with no family there.
What do you think? Am I making a bad decision? Also, I will be 23 and hubby will be 26 when we have our first...if all goes as planned!
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