So Aquarius too friendly or intimidating?�?

Question

Yeah, I don't get it?

My brother is an Aqua dude, with moon & Rising in Sag & I know other Aqua's who are like this....(others who aren't)

Lets go with my bro...he is really nice & talkative, yet most people don't respond well to him. Idk why & I kno it bugs him.

He tries to strike a convo & blah nothing or no one cares.

Is it being tooooo friendly that bother people? That's f*^% Up!

But, possible....like some ppl think they are being fake or want something...he's not like that one of the realist ppl I have ever meet says whatever.

Is that intimidating to some (blunt pp)l? Or are they like jealous...lol.

Idk...he never says mean things...he just jokes & stuff.

Other Aqua's like that....other peep's meet aqua's like that?

Idk.....Aqua so set up for 'friendships' yet some have trouble making them ya'know? I get confused w/ that sign???? Opinions, explain, etc.........

Answer 1

Sometimes..it depends on who I meet.

Sometimes i come off as intimidating because how friendly I am, I like doing that though (especially to quiet people)

But I don't have a hard time making friends. it's just when I first meet someone they stare at me like "OK..." But then they'll loosen up.

That's my goal to loosen people up.

Answer 2

i knew someone like that....the fact that no one likes him is b/c he thinks he's hot sh**t, and he's not.  he is already ready to take the throne so to speak, but he does not realize he has yet to do anything to deserve it/is nothing like the rest of us.  he doesn't appreciate anything/anyone, b/c he just assumes he is entitled to all good things/deserves it.  he has serious ego issues, and will not go far in life, as he spends his time picking rotten bones with me (his ex, who is female).  he expects to get everywhere in life already or be a seen as a big man --at the age of 19 already, but the fact is that he has done jack squat to deserve it, and cannot put down his ego still to actually achieve success.  he is dismissing of females.....once he has hooked up with them he expects them to be 'his', but he does not show any appreciate of women, and does not do anything to do deserve/maintain them--all the while sticking to his theory of being misunderstood.  it's pretty pathetic....he should just accept that he is nothing (and just a student like the rest of us)....and that he is below par even in that (but that can be raised)....i think his success is really limited...

Answer 3

well may ppl dont get his jokes if he prolly hangs out with uptight ppl like me for example i'm a virgo i got gemini frnds and i get frustrated cuz theyr always irrisponsible and all they do is fool arround all the time pffft! -_-. see what i mean ? Lol...

Answer 4

Not sure what other aspects are in his chart (like his Mercury which determines his communication approach or what's in his house of friendship) but that said, he probably isn't interacting with other air and fire signs who will enjoy his intelligence, wit and friendliness!

Heavy water in the OP chart will prefer a warming up to them at their pace and at their level of comfort and preferably if and when they decide.  Too much "friendliness" has the opposite affect on them.  Earth not as much as with water but they still prefer a more soft/subtle approach.

He's just talking to people who can not relate to his element, maybe?!

Answer 5

i personally have yet to meet an Aquarius who was intimidating....but I haven't met one with Sagittarius Rising either...I would say the Sag in him is part of the issue.....Sometimes it is hard for other people to get in tune with Sag people because they think on a totally different wave length than most others do. They are very open and down to earth (blunt). They don't mean any harm but can often stick their own foot in their mouth (in almost any given situation). They can also tend to rub others the wrong way (again due to the different wave lengths and/or vibes). These types of people can be very energetic, both physically and mentally! With Aquarius in Sun I would also suspect that he is full of positive vibes and may even tend to bombard others with their upbeat and somewhat bubbly personalities...not necessarily a bad thing but to people who don't know them, they just may feel as though their space is being pounded with a kind of energy that they may not be used to....I would advise to try to tone things down a bit...once others get warmed up a bit to him then he should be good to go to just cut loose with them...and they will probably be more receptive and open to him after this 'warm up' time.

Hope that hit a few and also helps out some...

Answer 6

can't speak for all the aquarians, but i had a memorable experience with an aquarius I dated. He was kinda like your brother. Well, not really talkative but friendly and outspoken. He was very blunt and wouldn't compromise anything for his words. He'd say things that were not "socially" appropriate when in social gatherings. It'd be a little uncomfortable to hang out with him and my friends. None of my friends liked him. Actually, one my friends even got into a huge fight with him. The thing with aquarius is, they don't care how uncomfortable ppl are of his remarks, he'll continue talking about it or even joke around. A lot of times offensive to ppl and he just doesnt care. He'll stick to his words even if 10,000 ppl will disagree with him long as it's valid and true. And most of the times it is but not really things to be said out.

Answer 7

def intimidating.....aquas intimidate me intoa corner : (

i always find people like your brother quite likable....what's wrong with being a little too friendly?? i don't think there's such a thing as being toooo friendly..... maybe it's just the type of people at your school or something    ....i am like that too, but then again he isn't a silly looking female in a skirt, so maybe a softer approach would be better with certain people : D

Answer 8

Yeah people deffinetly get intimidated by how frank and open they are, people in some way wish they were able to be as open and friendly as them...

-Aquarius Rising

Answer 9

You know what. I'm Aquarius and people respond to me the same way sometimes. I'm the type of person that will smile at strangers cause I'm very friendly. However, people almost never smile back or they'll give me strange looks. It used to hurt my feelings but I've learned to observe people and I no longer waste good manners on people who don't deserve it. It used to really hurt my heart that people would be that way but it's made me a bit more detached which sucks cause I think being nice is an admirable trait. I'm just a little pickier about who I'm nice to now. I hope your brother doesn't get to the point where he's not friendly to everyone =(

Aquarians are often misunderstood anyway so I often wonder if people don't get where were coming from when we're actually just trying to be nice. Perhaps they're not used to having a stranger say hello or flash a smile. Aquarius is the sign of friendship so it's natural to us to be this way but perhaps it's seen as weird to other people. I don't know. I still don't get it and I'm still trying to figure it all out. Tell your brother not too feel too bad cause I think a lot of Aquarians go through this. He's definitely not alone. I have found on days that I'm not in the greatest of moods and I'm not talkative at all then that's when people want to be friendly and strike up conversations. Go figure.

Funny thing is after people actually get to know me, they're the complete opposite. Laughing at my jokes, inviting me out, just wanting to be in my company. However, it's hard to get to that point when people don't even give you a chance. I've learned to just be my same old friendly self and those that don't like it aren't worth my time. Those few that get me end up loving me so it's cool =o)