So, I was with this guy for 2 1/2 years. We got together when my daughter was 6 months old. Its like he was a missing puzzle piece (he fit perfect). He ended up being a great man with me, a great father with her and a great provider for both of us.
We split 2 weeks ago (his decision)... we had been bickering non stop for like 2 months! I was getting pretty sick of him too... but I just figured it was the constant seeing him EVERYDAY... and not going off and hanging out with people separately. This guy and I were perfect together - we knew each other so well and got along great before those two months.
Anyway, he talked about marriage a month before he left me. Had s*x with me the night before. Then we had an argument the next night and he was gone.
Now he is living with his mother, I have a little girl asking and crying for him all the time. And for the past two weeks he hasn't really called or came by. Until yesterday - he came in and emotions came and we had s*x twice and after that he said "well what are we going to do?" I told him to just stay at his moms maybe we can figure things out with a little space. So today he tells me he isn't sure he wants a relationship with me because he is worried things wont change but he loves me and THEN tells me he still wants to have s*x with me!!
I freaked out a little bit then he explained that he just doesnt know yet. "I might want to be back with you in a week or so" So I'm assuming that he just needs to figure things out..
But if he decides he doesn't want me anymore I'm going to be so emotionally messed up that I prob wont be able to trust another guy for MANY years to come.
Do I wait it out?
Do I tell him to F off?
I miss him, and I KNOW he is making a mistake.
What do I do?
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