So I Just Found Out That I'm Pregnant. What Do I Do? HELP!?

Question

Well I was planning on breaking up with my boyfriend because of the past and how he has cheated and ect. So umm I'm very confused and I was gonna break up with him cause his been treating me wierd lately. I'm very upset and sad and I don't know what to do. I'm 15 years old and I just found out yesterday that I'm pregnant. Should I leave him still? Or stay with him cuz of the babie coming? Help Me Please!!!

Answer 1

well, if he threatens you, I would think that may be a no brainer. You don't need to be with someone who is hateful and abusive. Too many people stay together or get married b/c of pregnancy and then divorce shortly after. If you love him and want to be with him then do it. Don't do it just b/c you are pregnant.

Answer 2

I think you should be considering adoption. You still have highschool to get through with.

Answer 3

It doesn't sound like he'll be too involved in the baby's life.

Have you considered abortion?

Answer 4

well you need to get things straight and think about your baby, ain't time to play around, and i don't think you should break up with him b/c you going to need him the most you should sit down with him and talk about it. and if doesn't want to be involve dump his *** all your baby need is you. finish school and go to college, i got pregnant at the age of 15 had my baby at 16 and now I'm 17 [9month son]  and i'm a senior my goal is to go to college for him, all i need in life is him. get help from your parent they'll help you trust me

Answer 5

leave him. you shouldn't of been with him after he cheated on you in the first place.  

Answer 6

don't go through the pain of being pregnant and having a jerk boyfriend. you could probably work something out so the baby will have a dad. don't get a abortion because that is just like murdering someone, not like killing a fish. the baby is alive and feels pain too. u might of already decided no on a abortion but don't take second thought of an abortion. tell ur parents as soon as possible before they figure out by themselves. Good Luck, I'm sure the baby will have a great mommy!! =)

Answer 7

why are you even playing around with s*x if you are with a crappy boyfriend?  how horrible to bring a child into this world with parents who already aren't together.  no offense...but you're so young...it's just so sad that you just threw your whole life away on a guy who isn't worth it.

my advice, talk to your parents, figure out your options, make a responsible choice (not a selfish one) and good luck.

Answer 8

NEVER NEVER NEVER stay with anyone "because of the baby" Leave him and talk only for the baby if he acts good toward the baby. Good Luck honey xx

Answer 9

no if he doesnt treat you right leave him... he can still be in the babies life.. and yall can work on that in some months or so. but really thats your decision. just dont abort the baby or anything just cuhz your 15 doesnt mean you wont be a good mom. good luck.