So I am 20 and cant seem to get pregnant. I think there is something wrong with us.

Question

So I am 20 and cant seem to get pregnant. I think there is something wrong with us.

Answer 1

Most likely there is nothing wrong with you.  Pregnancy doesn't always happen immediately like some of us would like to believe (myself included).  There are many factors in trying to get pregnant that can have an effect on you and your body.  If you've been trying for over a year go and talk to your OBGYN they can run tests to see if there is anything wrong with either one of you.  

My suggestion to you would be to relax and see your doctor if it's been over a year.  Good luck!

Answer 2

First of all how long have you been trying to fall pregnant. My mum tried for a year and was so stressed and went to the doctor and he said stop trying and just enjoy each other well one month later she was pregnant.  If you have been trying for a couple of years then maybe both of you could go to the doctors to see.  It took me 5 months to fall pregnant after I had been on the pill for 4 years as it takes a while to get out of your system I hope this helps

Answer 3

If it's been more than 6 months of actively trying (operative word: actively), timing your ovulation, and you're not pregnant, go talk to your OB/GYN. If it's been longer than that, definitely go talk to the doc. The 1 year or more is for women older than their early to mid-thirties. If you're younger than this, conventional medical wisdom says six months is the marker to investigate. Good luck.

Answer 4

After trying for 2 years we went to our doctor and he told us to have s*x every 3 days because he has time to build up his sperm count. Plus sperm can stay in your body for 2 to 3 days. you still want s*x to be fun and not a chore. I was also told if you both o****m at the same time or pretty close, that you can "suck" up the sperm better. please forgive the lack of medical terms, I dont know what the technical term is. lol this website was amazing for me helped me out a lot http://www.mymonthlycycles.com/

I dont know if you believe in psychics or not but I went to one and she said in Feb I would get pregnant so I was a little more calm and voila I was pregnant. I hope this helps!! Good luck

Answer 5

No most likely there is no problem. there is nothing wrong with you. the more you think about it the less likely it is to happen though.

However just to be sure, your man could go get a sperm count through a reg doctors appt and make sure his numbers are high...  

Answer 6

How long have you been trying? If it's less than a year, then no, there is nothing wrong.

If it's more than a year, go to the docs for fertility assistance.