I was sick all of last week. I didn't go to work. A female co-worker's birthday was on Wednesday. I was able to go, but was afraid of getting everyone sick. So I wished her happy bday, and pitched in on a present. By Monday I had felt better, and decided to have dinner with another female worker.
Today I saw the bday girl, I've always had a hunch she had a crush on me, but wasn't sure. Anyways, it turns out that on her bday, she also announced that she'll be moving to another country in two weeks. She was sick, and made a joke about how I gave it to her. I smiled and said that's why I didn't want to come to your party. She stopped smiling and said "oh, you were too sick to come to my birthday, but not too sick yesterday to be with...then she cut herself off, and excused herself
I am not sure if what I did was a jerk move, I really was sick, but now I feel quite bad. I suppose I could take her to dinner, but it might be wierd as I've never had dinner with just her before. What's a good apology? Why was this a jerk move by me? Surely she didn't want me over if I was sick did she?
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