So I like this guy but he's dating another girl?

Question

So I like him and I want to tell him so should I and see what he does?

Answer 1

yes you should tell him maybe he doesn't like his girlfriend as much as he seems to like her

Answer 2

nope. wait until he's single. thats the smart thing to do. otherwise he'll be like "..........."

lol.

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Answer 3

yea this is happenin to me 2

i like this girl but she is going out with some other guy

the way u tell them is to give them signals that you like him

give stare at him alot make eye contact and always smiles

it gives the guy the look that your instrested

Answer 4

If he's dating someone else, the best thing for you do do is not get in the middle of it. They are already together, and if he likes you enough and doesn't care for his current girlfriend, he would dump her and go out with you. If you get inbetween them, it will cause a whole bunch of drama, and is not worth the effort. As far as I'm concerned you have two options:

-Wait patiently for them to break it off, but stay out of it until then.

-Forget about him all together and move on.

-Become friends with him but don't flirt..it will cause his girlfriend to be jealous and there will be alot of drama. (not the best choice!!)

Remember, there's tons of other people out there..

Hope I helped.

Answer 5

If he's dating another girl, let him date the other girl.  How would you like it if some other chick tried to steal your boyfriend? If you absolutely know they are completely wrong for each other and you and he are 'soul mates,' then be his friend.  If you're going to be together forever, what's a little wait.  Whenever they break up, give it a respectful period and then tell him...but in the mean time, it's okay for you to date someone else.

Answer 6

Find someone else, or wait patiently.

If you try to steal him from his girlfriend and lose, you'll look really bad.  Both other girls and guys will see you as being trampy and not having respect.  And you'll be branded a loser.

If you try to steal him and win, you'll still look really bad, and in addition to looking trampy, you'll probably have an enemy that actively hates you.  And, a guy who would dump his current girlfriend to be with you would likely dump you, soon.  Then you'll be alone, and with a bad reputation.

Answer 7

It's okay to like this guy, but he is dating someone else, wound you want another woman to do the same to you? Only push yourself to let him know if you can't deal with being without him, but if you just admire him don't destroy their relationship. Become his friend and see if a meaningful relationship will build between you and him. Then when the time is right make your move.

Answer 8

wait a week or two to see if they break up or not and if they dont, then tell him.

Answer 9

Would you like someone to do that to you? Plus, what will you gain from having him dump his girlfriend? Only leftovers, and definitely not respect from him. Go find someone else.

Answer 10

only tell him if u know him really good.... otherwise just get to know him better, be friends with him..... let him know.. without actually TELLING him..... SHOW HIM you do by showing interest.

Answer 11

He's just NOT into you, Darlin' Girl!

It's really tough to take, but sometimes (actually most times), we see more into a guy than what he sees in us.  Whether we want to admit it or not, guys pretty much run the relationship if it is to "stick" and last.  If a guy is not into a relationship, he very easily and quickly detaches himself from it emotionally and moves on (even if not physically).

In all "successful" relationships that I've encountered, the guy has to be a tad more into the gal than she in him in order for the relationship to even have a chance.  In my family, the males instantly "fell in love" and persued the females with fervor and drive.  Instant attraction is the primary motivation with the guy, and off he goes in hot persuit.

So, spare yourself heartache, as 99.9% of the men out there do NOT want the female chasing him down.  The male's mating nature is to chase the female - not the other way around.  

If this beau of yours has his eyes locked on another female, then let it be.  He knows his heart and hormonal level better than you, and unless the other gal strongly spurns him and walks away, you are left with the title of "audience only" this go around.

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Answer 12

Unless you are really close to him, i wouldn't do that, i would honestly just wait a while, (if your in high school) then just wait because almost all relationships end soon.  If it never seems like it is going to end, i would start flirting with him a lot more, and see if he starts to like you instead of his girl friend :]  

Answer 13

Hands off. He's dating someone else. Just talk to him like you would talk to any other friend you come in contact with. Be pleasant. Be interesting. Be interested in what he's doing and what he thinks. But don't flirt. If he breaks up with the girl he is dating, he will remember you as a pleasant and interesting person, but it won't be on your conscience that you broke up some one else romance.

How would you feel if some other girl hit on your boy friend?

Answer 14

He obviously likes his girlfriend? Don't be selfish.

Answer 15

the answer is really simple..if he's dating another girl, dont get inbetween.

Answer 16

If I were in that situation, which I am, I wouldn't tell.  I plan on waiting until they break up.

Answer 17

if you know he is with another girl think about what you would feel if you were the other girl .... maybe you should think about that .?? if it wouldn't bother you reversing the roles then go ahead and tell him how you feel.

good luck to you.....  

Answer 18

girl get over it you will find someone you really love.

Answer 19

dont do it unless u can take it when you get hurt.or break up with that 2 timer there are a lot of guys in the world you know

Answer 20

No, you should have respect for him and the girl he's with. You can stay friends with him and chat and stuff, but it is a terrible idea to tell him. If you remain friends and he sees something in your future, then maybe he'll end it, but thats his decision, not yours.

Answer 21

ive told someone that i liked that i liked him when he had a girlfriend.

we became best friends. and now hes an awesome boyfriend. =)

hope it werks.

Answer 22

No leave him alone if he has a girlfriend. Would you like it if you found out a girl was telling your man she liked him? I don't think so. You'll get a bad reputation.

It's not fair, at least wait till they break up if they do...

Answer 23

No I don't think you should that at all because he won't break up with his girlfriend just cause another girl is interested in him, and honestly if he broke up with his girlfriend for you or any girl for that matter, he's not a keeper anyways. Not only that think about how you would feel if he was your boyfriend and some girl was trying to hook up with him.

Answer 24

idk because u should respect their relationship if he really luv her & she luv him don't get in between them but if they just started going out then give it a try  

Answer 25

Leave it be. Remember what goes around comes around.

Answer 26

i know how you feel but i think its best that you accept that fact that hes dating someone else and move on. Barging in on someone else's relationship just isnt right, him and the girl could really have something going on. How would you feel if you were that girl and someone tryed to step right into your relationship? its okay to explain your feelings but dont try to get him to break up with his current girlfriend for you, cause if a guy did that that pretty much says that hes willing to break up with you for any other girl.

Answer 27

well you could.

but if he breaks up with his girlfriend for you; or cheats on her with you

then you will never trust him.

you will always think that he could do that to you with the "next best thing" that comes along. and he could.

so just wait it out...

plus why would you want to hurt another girl like that?

its just mutual respect.

Answer 28

ive had the same exact thing happen. if it seems like he likes you a little, then go ahead and tell him. but warning, it will make things SUPER awkward if he doesnt like you. and even if he does, dont expect him to break up with his gf for you.. hes prob. with her for a reason.

Answer 29

i wouldn't do it now. If they break up go for it! I just think that if you do it now it would be really awkward for him and chances you wont like how it turns out because hes already dating someone. Just wait and see if they break up. hope that helps!

Answer 30

Be friends with him.  If he is attracted to you and want you to be his girlfriend, he would make his choice.  

Answer 31

dont say nothing hecause that isnt right if u like him then let him be happy because if u do and if he does break up with his gf then what if another girl comes along just like u he may do the same to u. U arent with people u like for a reason who knows you may notice a nasty habit