So I really need advice....my guy friend is confusing me!!!?

Question

I have a guy friend who i met this past year at school. we hung out a lot towards the end of the year and then a couple weeks ago when i was up near his house (we live about 8hrs away during the summer because we're in college) he invited me to stay with him. it was really fun and so a week or so after i got home i called him to thank him again and see what he was up to. turns out his phone was broken so i had to leave a facebook message. i didnt hear from him for awhile but when i did he seemed happy to hear back from me and he said he would call me soon. well that was over a week ago. What is up? i mean we're good friends and i would never wait that long to return a phone call, but he has waited almost three weeks now since my first message. i just wanna talk to my friend but he is being all weird and flaky. he was never like this before. what's wrong?

Additional Details...

no nothing happened when i went to visit.

but...back at the end of the school year we kissed/made out once, and after that nothing really developed, we were still just friends. maybe because I'm transferring colleges so it would be hard. but i see us as just friends now even though i will admit i have feelings for him. and im pretty sure he sees me as just friend, but then again i really have no idea.

Answer 1

If you really want to remain friends there is no harm in calling him. Maybe he is just busy or held up with something else. Call him and ask him whats up, you know.. just the usuals.

If you guys are destined to be together you will be someday :). My best friend of 15 years is miles away and we did have a crush on each other while in school. We probably fought with each other for 5 of those 15 years :), but I know he will always be there for me and he probably knows that as well.

Friends are meant to be.. Guy or Gal makes no difference. Its just that if it is a friend of the opposite s*x the friendship turns to something more than that sometimes :)

Good luck!

Answer 2

I've had a best friend for the past 10 yrs who is male and we have also kissed before and that was it.  There have been times we haven't talked for months but we are still best friends and when we do talk it's like nothing has even changed. I live about 10 miles from him and we hardly have time to see eachother or talk.  If you guys are good friends and you have something you want to talk to him about just contact him if you can you don't have to wait for him to call. he also might be dealing with issues in his pesonal life so next time you do talk to him ask him about it.