So Im finding White men to be more attractive...?

Question

Please let me explain myself. Im in my senior year at UCLA, however, Ive grown up in majority black neighborhoods as a child. Because of this, along with Hip Hop and the masogony that runs through the black community, I thought that I'd always ONLY find myself attracted to black men.

However, I find myself holding soo much respect toward white men. So many of my professors are soo passionate about the sciences. They have upper-middle class incomes yet you would never know it. They stay after hours and inspire their students in unbelievable ways. I find scientists in the past to be quite amazing as well.

Somehow I think that black men in this position would be very arrogant and haughty. Just look at Kanye West and Jay Z. They brag about all they attain. Yet Bill Gates is very humble and gives signifcant portions of his welth away.

Has anyone else noticed this?

Answer 1

so you are attracted to what they have and how they act with it. gold diggers chase all kinds of men i aint sayin you a gold digger  but you aint mention a broke you know the rest  

Answer 2

Go with what feels good to you. My tastes have changed and evolved throughout my adult life. Keep yourself open, and you never know what a wonder will pop into your life.

Answer 3

why is this in the lgbt section ?

Answer 4

Umm...you are comparing Bill Gates to Kanye West.....

It seems to me that you are obsessed about money. The comparisons that you use :

"..have upper-middle class incomes...."

"..brag about all they attain..."

"...gives significant portions of his wealth away..."

....are all based on money.

I'm not sure why you don't have any black role models in your life, but allow me to introduce you to one.

His name is Cleon Wiggins.  He's my Diversity Studies proffessor. He's never going to be rich or famous.  I attend a community college, and he's just one of many talented professors who are 'stuck' in junior colleges across our country.  Personally, I couldn't be happier.  I can't afford a school like UCLA, and I think I'm lucky to have such a role model.

I think you should turn off the T.V. and get to know your country a bit better, not just the parts that Hollywood and the music industry likes us to see....