So My Girl Friend Wants To Fight Me Now Over Stuff I Said Behind Her Back

Question

We met these 2 guys from my old job a month ago. She has been talking to them on the phone for the passed 2 weeks now and according to her all their convos have been about me and talking c**p about me cuz of stuff I did with one of the guys and that guy happens to be married (I didn't know) and supposedly I've been talking about my friend behind her back.

She would tell me all the things they were saying about me, but I get the feeling she's only telling me this cuz she's instigating.

So tonight I went by myself to talk to one of the guys to get this stuff cleared up and he said that yes they've all been talking about me even my supposed friend. I told him I believe she's instigating as I drove the guy home and told him to call her and he did. Then my friend called me from some odd number trying to scream at me on my voicemail and now its drama time.

What should I do? I cant call her now its late and to wait til morning seems like a bad idea. She and I are 20 yrs old and the guys are 20 25.

Answer 1

You two are TWENTY YEARS OLD, not five.

Grow up.

And if she refuses to think calmly and logically about the situation then your best bet is to ignore her completely. You don't need drama like that in your life. You're an adult, even if she's not.