So confused and annoyed... what to do...?

Question

OK so right now I feel as I made a wrong choice in who I picked for the babys nanny. Just the attitude I get from her. I deal with it, but I told both, DH and SIL, that the fighting needs to stop. I don't want my baby growing up with a father and nanny who can't get along for anything. They said they would. Well here we are 8 weeks later and the fighting has not stopped. I don't think it ever will. I don't want to feel bad about going back on my word and telling her she can't be the nanny, but I think that may be what is best. DH doesn't care because he didn't want her to be the nanny in the first place. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do. I am sick of the fighting.

Answer 1

I don't mean to be blunt, but fire her, find someone compatible with you entire family.  Good luck.

Answer 2

Do what you think is best for the baby! So what if you hurt your feelings. It's not about her!!! Just tell her that I don't think it's going to work out and leave it at that.

Answer 3

Pray

Answer 4

I would tell her she can't be the nanny and find a new one. If your husband and her cannot get along, then there will always be conflict and stress in the household.

I would have your husband fire her if it bothers you that much to tell her.