So depressed and sad HELP me!!!?

Question

i am so sad right now i dont know what to do. you see, my parents went out and i am so bored, so i called my mom after few hours and she told me to watch tv and wait till i come home and well go over these peoples house that i was so looking for. but as soon as they come and we go up to her apartment (she lives in the upstairs apartment) my sister comes and says that my dad is calling us and wants us right now. when i go down my dad started yelling at me and my sis because the kitchen is a bit mess and i told him that its was all my sister but he wont believe me. its not the first time. when my dad is angry he always yells at us and makes us clean. i dont know witch prob. he has worse, anger or cleaning

Answer 1

Your parents both work hard during the day and they expect to come home to the house the same way it was or pretty much the same way it was when they left.  If they come home and find the house messy with dishes in the sink that they didn't leave there, then they are going to be quite upset at you and your sister and not care who made the mess, but that there is a mess that they have to worry about.  Whenever you and your sister cook or take anything out, clean things and put things back and that way you will get more privileges and get to go out more when they come home.

Answer 2

ummm I really don't understand why your upset...I was raised to believe that since the whole family lives in the house together it doesnt matter who makes the mess, you should just clean it up anyway...

sorry if you have to clean...if that makes you feel better

Answer 3

I'm sorry you got yelled at. That sucks. Cleaning also sucks. I'm sure your dad still loves you and is just in a bad mood.

Answer 4

Talk to some of your older relatives, like grand-mom or grand-dad

if possible. I wish I was there to talk with him about the yelling. It's verbal abuse.