Ive suffered from social anxiety and depression from as long as i can remember, im 24 now and have managed to go to college for 4 months (dropped out) because i couldnt cope with the social side, then worked for 6 months when i was 18 and had to leave because once again i couldnt handle the social side of it, and thats as far as ive got in life
Ive recently been in hospital for an op and since i got back last night ive been so depressed i dont know why, i thought id be glad to be home but in hospital theres no worries, your being looked after, your in company and theres nothing to worry about
Ive lost my appetite and can see this is going to spiral out of control because i feel more in control, its like i want to suffer even more because ive lost a lot, might not seem a lot to some people but it is to me
Im not a social person so it was hard for me to socialise with the patients and nurses but i did it, and if i didnt feel like socialising i used to go to sleep or listen to some music, but knowing theres people around me that are genuine people made me feel safe
Ive met some really nice people and now ive lost all that
I was depressed in hospital but i was in company at least even if i didnt want to socialise, i felt safe and secure
Now im back home i have nothing, my mums always there for me but i just push her away, its the same with my family, i just dont want to be a part of it and i dont know why
I hate myself when i do see my family, and i hate myself for not seeing my family because i know it hurts them not to see me, so i cant win
I find it easier to isolate myself though
I kept a diary while i was in hospital, and its made me realise life isnt worth living, the way my mind works its all negative
Living is a mental battle and ive decided i dont want to face it anymore
I know theres a better place
It doesnt really matter what i do in life i never feel good enough, its never right, everything in life is wrong through my perception
I cant accept myself, my mind is evil, its always criticising
I reflect a lot on the past, and its hard to move on
I cherish the memories and live on them, instead of creating new ones as in the present
The first time i got discharged from hospital i was so emotional i nearly broke down when i had to say goodbye to some of the patients id met
It really hit my heart saying goodbye, i couldnt control my feelings
and when i got home i just cried and cried it was unreal
I think i isolate myself that much that when i do meet decent people and have to say goodbye, its so hard to accept that im never gonna see these people again
Many of time ive put myself in other peoples job positions (because i dont work), say for instance "a nurse"
I just couldnt keep up the good spirit and positive mentality that they do, they always seem high in spirits and mood, so that makes the patients feel more cheery
I put myself in that position and i know it would be a real mental battle to be at that level all the time, i really suffer with my mood and mentality i just couldnt do it
I know if i got a job my mood would really dip, id be even more depressed and why would any employee want that?
No money, no life, no love, no ambition, no purpose
I cut my friends and family off because i cant cope
I just want to escape everything, as sad as it seems id rather be back in hospital in bed high on morphine because it took everything away
and i felt secure
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