So gosh darn depressing. Help!?

Question

So I asked a question just a couple of minutes ago about my miserable relationship with my dad. The answerers were very nice and told me to talk it out with him. They obviously don't know my dad... but that's not what this is about. My father issues are becoming more prominent because I'm going through the 'teenage angst' thing. I never thought it would really happen to me though! I've always been very bookish, and happy with it, but suddenly I want to be pretty (which I'm not particularly), and fit in (which I don't very well), and I want to have a boyfriend (I have a great best friend but I still feel desperately lonely). I want someone to hold, someone to touch, somewhere that I feel like I belong. I want someone to stroke my face and tell me they love me, that they accept me, that it's going to be okay. But I don't have anyone. Why is this happening? How do I make it go away?

Answer 1

sorry, but thats just how it is. you can distract yourself from the feeling but it doesnt really go away, i know cuz im a teenager too. it sucks but we must deal with the fact that growing up is tough.

Answer 2

bbygurl im in the same position.

same exact.

and it wont go away.

you have to deal wit it or push those feelings away.

it will be ok tho =]

Answer 3

Im so like like crying like . like to omg like like omg i need to waste 10,000 bucks now im sad!

Answer 4

EMO.

Answer 5

Young lady this is part of life! You don't really want it to go away! You just at this awkward age of your teen-age years, that everything is going wrong, but you know what? It isn't going wrong,it seems to me all you really want to someone to show you, you are worth something! Right? Well, I have this person that loves you for who you are, He's been right beside you all this difficult time, you've been going thru and He's never left your side, and He's a great listener, never will tone you out, never will you that you would shut up like most people do,and far you wanting to fit in, have a boyfriend, I think young lady you need to get your feelings about what's happening to you in check first before any boyfriends, wuld you like to know who I was talking about??God!! That's who, He's been with you all thru this and He's never left you, young lady you're going thru your ugly duckling phase[NOT THAT YOU ARE UGLY!!!], but you think you are, so it comes down to you accepting yourself, caring about yourself,if there is something about you YOU DO NOT LIKE, YOU CAN CHANGE IT!For the better, you are in between the ugly duckling stage, and soon YOU WILL TURN INTO A BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLY!If you start caring about yourself,and stop worrying about what you don't have and remember what you do have, you'll see you have more than you realized!!Such as:1.,You have a good head on your shoulders,2.before this stage in your life started you had self-esteem,3.self-worth,4.) you were not feeling as lonely as you are now,5.) then you cared about yourself, your learning, RIGHT?Well, young lady you still have all of that, you just have to believe in yourself,keep your chin up, thank God every day for your life,be happy as the person God intends for you to be, fun-loving, caring about yourself, and others,you'll also see a difference in your relationship with your dad; he sees this beautiful daughter he helped bring into this world (so many years ago)that is depressed, alone, hating herself and everyone around her, and he has no idea what to do to fix it, but if he could I'm sure he would, but HE CAN'T YOU HAVE TO CHANGE IT!Tomorrow go outside,[before you do that] fix your hair up the way you like it, put on make-up, and put on a smile on your face and in your heart, when you see your dad tomorrow, go over give him a big hug, and tell him you love him, then go outside, look up at the sky and admire the white fluffy clouds, and look around you at all God made for you especially on this day! Because this day is the first day in your new life whan you care first about yourself, then show others you care about yourself, and they will start to care also>You have & never will alone! Remember little one God is always there with you,talk to him!you'll see yourself turning into that beautiful butterfly soon! Just care about yourself first!!