So i'm in love with a close friend!?

Question

But i just dont know if shes sees me in that kinda way. Shes been a friend of mine since sophomore year. Were both seniors , and i still haven't let her no that i truly love her. The reason im so scared to ask is , That , i know the kinda guy she likes. And there tall and in perfect shape.

Im not that type. Ive got a little extra to love. She likes guys that are like 6'0 and 185 pounds. Im 6'1 130 pounds. So , im abit over weight and over what she normally goes for. Ive actually lost weight thinking that it might make her look at me different. Ive stayed up nights working out , Failed two classes junior because of that and i couldnt seem to lose anymore so i quit that. And i am dreading the fact that if i dont tell her how i feel , she will move onto another guy , and that he could be the one she falls in love with. But im so scared to tell her , Ive been held at gun point before and i didnt feel this way. This is just painful to think about asking her. Im just so confused. I dont know what to do. Is there some way i could tell her , but not make her think differently about me!!!! HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

it shouldnt matter what you look like to this girl if she really cares about you. i was in the same situation as you are when i was in high school. i ended up dating my best friend and the only reason we split was because of college. Dont be scared to tell her how you feel..

I like to always say "Do what you're afraid to do and live without regret" I hope everything works out for you.  

Answer 2

You can do something really nice for her.like...get her something she really likes. try to show your love for her and see if she gets it. then maybe she might ask you if you like her, or she might not. if not, then i guess you'll just have to straight out ask her. don't be so afraid. if you really don't want to lose her to another guy then you can use that fear as an ammunition. if it fails then hey, at least you tried. coz if you keep it to yourself then she'll never know, and you'll never find out if you'll ever have a chance with her.

Good luck! =D

Answer 3

I think you may have meant 230?

But anyways, just take a deep breath and tell her.  But also tell her that if she doesn't feel the same way, you will always be her friend.   I had a good friend tell me he loved him when I was just out of high school.  I just couldn't see him in that way, but almost 10 years later, we are still great friends and he is married with 2 kids ;)

Answer 4

wait.. it says you are 130 pounds... that isnt overweight.