So if they're are limits to trusting people?

Question

so it sounds like to me that people shouldn't trust anyone, and yes all of us has had different pasts which we go off of when we talk and write and percive bout people and things and think about in disscusions but isn't it true all so that if you go out and try to do somthing different it hurts you as well? if no one is trusting or anything nothin g can work so what's the point? yes, its ture i've found a few people in my life but that's only 2 people one i've known for 10 years the others been for about 2 and the ones i have now are bout mayb 4 y do we as people do that soo much?

Answer 1

Learn to use periods.  I can't understand what you are asking nor saying.

Answer 2

Trust must be comes along with sincerity of that person. This you will take time and sometimes you have to test him/her. And be considerable what the things that he hiding from you, is it for your own good or maybe he is simply a liar. And find out what's worth yourself to be cheated. Sorry if this is too straight forward but i think that's the way to evaluate a person and the relationship. Don't you think so?

Answer 3

there are always limits to trusting someone else. until you meet that person (those people) where the limits disappear. negotiation, experience, risk - all these are involved in every single relationship that you have. and it's a once in a lifetime thing (in my opinion) that the limiting factors can be thrown away and you end up with true trust of someone else.

finding that person is the purpose behind having relationships in the first place. so go forth and have relationships, trusting as much as you can, until you find that person who burns away your limits.

Answer 4

You still have to have people you can trust in your life, but remember trust has to be earned and respected by both people in the relationship. But as with all relationships you also have to be able to forgive someone if they have violated your trust, talk to the person that has hurt you see if there is any chance at restoring your faith in them. Best wishes!

L

Answer 5

I trust no 1

Answer 6

Trust is hard, and it's different for every friendship in the world. I'm sorry you have had a hard time, but I think you can simply learn from your past mistakes, and be selectively trusting to selective people. I hope that your past experiences don't make you crab up, too! Please don't let your past experiences ruin your future.

Best of luck.