So im 14 and bisexual, and really need help.?

Question

So I go to a really bad school.. I am bisexual and have known for years, but my school is completely against people like moi. And no this isn't a phase.. jeeze. anyway, i hate having to hide who I am.. i told a couple of my close friends.. they were okay with it. but honestly I only think my friend Shawn and Jasmine are completely cool with it.

so.. what do i do??keep hiding and lose myself? im just afraid i'll lose the people i love. i really like this super cute blonde girl.. who i am almstsure is bi or g*y =] so,a advice? there are only a few people at me schoollike me.. HELP!? i need to know if i let morepeople kno my secret and how can i get people to understand, i would much rather have a gf tha a bf.. guys are immature.. HELP! (sorry almost broken finger, so bad spelling/typos)

Answer 1

well you shouldnt hide it but who said that yu have to tell them...wat i mean is...dont deny the fact ur bi...but also yu dont have to let them al noe...if they ask yu then say yes i am and if they dont then oh well theyll figure it out...so need to hide it really just dont deny it

Answer 2

I think you should just be who you are and go for it with that girl, otherwise you'll never really be happy. If your friends are true friends then they will understand and love you still anyway :) in my opinion, it's really better to be yourself than to hide it forever. isn't it better for people to like you for who you are instead of who you're pretending to be?

of course, you really need to decide this for yourself. this is just my opinion :)

Answer 3

TELL THEM I MEAN YOU WILL FIND OUT WHO UR REAL FRANNS ARE IM BI AND HIDDING IT FROM MY PARENT BUT EVERYONE ELSE KNOWS SO U SHOULD TELL

ASK THAT BLONDE CHICK OUT SEE WAT SHE SAYS THE WORST THINGS SHE CAN SAY IS NO  

Answer 4

I have lots of friends who are psychologists, I've met them before through my dad who is one too, and they all seem to agree that there is no such thing as a bi-sexual.

However if you do believe that you are able to well do it with both sexes, and your family or classmates is likely to ridicule you if you come out, stick to acting like you like the male s*x. Wait till the years where people will be more accepting of your condition.

But in the end you are who you are, if you really feel this way it may take a lot of weight off your shoulders to tell everyone who you are. Base that decision on whether you think your parents can handle the news.

I have to admit I'm 14 myself and know how cruel kids at that age can be.

Answer 5

You seem too young for a relationship. Why don't you concentrate on school and homework and when you get a little older maybe you could start thinking about dating.  When you figure out the answer to your question in a few years that might be a sign that you are ready.

Answer 6

what you describe is tricky cause your school is hostile to your ways . hint around carefully with girls you admire , and stay tough if people find out and pour their hate on you .  

Answer 7

Yeah, I think you are too young for a relationship. Just become friends with the "super cute blond girl". You don't have to rush into a relationship when you don't even know for sure that she IS bi or g*y.  

Answer 8

Ok so honestly, I would be who you are. If the people around you can't deal with it or won't except it, then they are not true friends. You should not have to live your life around what other people are going to think or if you are going to lose your friends. If they cannot except it then fine you can replace them with someone else that can except it.

I always say, friends are like elevators, they either bring you up or bring you down. Looks like you haven't chosen what route. I know you are young and have high school and everything to go through but trust me I know it will get better in High-school. There are more Diverse people. Just stick it out and if that is who you are then that is who you are!! You go girl! As for the cute Blondie girl, I would maybe pass a few hints that you are bi or something and just don't go straight out and ask her because she might reject you in a bad way, plus you just started school, you have the whole year!!! :) Good luck!