So im going to a new school and im trying to get a gf?

Question

but my problem is im just quiet and i always been that way so the only way i ever get attention is when girl are interested in me and come talk to me etc and its weird it just seems awkward for me to do little things like say hi i think that at least im good looking.

im thinking im starting to do a little better but not that much

Answer 1

first of all don't look for a girlfriend. that sounds like a disaster in the making. instead look for a friend. how can you date someone you don't know very well. be friends first and then see where it goes.  but other than that is you look for guy friends too they might hangout with girls you could be potentially interested in. and if not at least you have regular friends that can help boost your confidence.

Answer 2

approach them in a friendly way and talk about normal subjects without getting too personal. That will give you the upper hand since they wouldnt know what to expect try doing that with groups and not necesarily the same girl do it with different ones every now and then but mind you dont be too predictable for you might be sent into the "friend zone" i got a lot of girls like that good luck!

Answer 3

Just be nice to everyone you come across. Specifically trying to "get a girlfriend" is like you have to target a person to do this.....this makes you look like a creep. you'll also end up obsessing over finding that special someone. Be friendly...do little things like even just smile to greet people....when a girl comes up to u.......talk about regular things...not too serious...that's it....gather friends...once you get to know a few girls...you'll know which ones you can trust as your girlfriend...have fun cheers~