So im really kinda hurt... Why do people call me a b?

Question

yeah i might be a little intimadating, but i thought that was always a goodish thing, ya know. anywho, I have a lot of friends but they are extremely honest. a lot of the guy friends i have say im basicall a b**** yeah i dont really appreciate it and i know for sure they aint joking. I do have to admit that im sorta a valley girl and thats the kind of inviroment that i live in. I just don't want to be considered s****. and a b****. I want people to think or know that i am actually a really kind person and not mean and nasty. I just get that way when people get under my skin. but yeah what should i do, whats the best solution for people to chill out on this?

Answer 1

It sounds like you got the BARBIE DOLL syndrome. Get a clue girl. Everyone has an *** that's going to sag in the end. Yours ain't no different. You want people to like you -EYE FOR AN EYE-keep your nose clean-don't make stupid remarks and looks that p**s people off-You made your bed= now fix it. Your the same as me, or whoever else -you put your pants on one leg at a time. If you treat people like there human instead of dogs then may be the rumors will subside. Good-Luck!!    

Answer 2

if the call you a ***** then they dont respect you and if they dont respect you then they aint really your freinds either that or you are a bitchy *** hole to stop being one jvst be nice dont judge people if you dont no them and stop being such a yuppie

Answer 3

Well theres gotta be a reason WHY people call you a B.

You must do things that you don't even notice that you are doing?

Maybe like you tend to laugh really loud rudely, or

Crack jokes that may be offensive,

Don't speak to others that are in your "group?"

Tell others rudely what to do or how they act?

Maybe of those things can tend to get on peoples nerves. Just take a look at what kind of things you dislike about other people, and see what they would think if they saw you with those traits.

Answer 4

start acting like it . don't treat other people like dirt because their not popular or anything. stop intimadating people

Answer 5

embrace the bichyness

Answer 6

You have to make yourself appear smart. having a reputation like that can be hard to get rid of, but it's still possible by all means! You should make yourself out to be more intelligent. Don't pretend that you don't understand something just to get a laugh from your friends; it might seem fun and harmless but it really affects your rep. You should talk about things that are interesting and don't be too flirty, that helps a lot!

Answer 7

Honestly, marijuana. I found that marijuana in moderate amounts made me chill out quite nicely and put the world into focus for me. Since there is such an anti smoking movement anymore, I'd recommend a good vaporizer. It's easier on the lungs. I'd suggest starting out with an eighth every week or so until you get the handle of it well, then maybe move up to a quarter a week. I'm serious, you'll start to chill out and people will no longer think you're a bit**. It's not the pretty answer in the bunch, but it's the correct one.