So im the older sis lol?

Question

and my mum is chinese and my step sisters who are 11 and 12 and the youngest one being 3 all seem to get attention and dont have to help around the house. i know that i am the older sis because i am 18 but that doesnt excuse the fact that they can just get away from doing the house chores and cleaning etc. all three of them are chinese and i am the only one who is of chinese/ caucasian ethnicity lol. normally when my mum tells them to do something they dont listen to. we have even tried to say it to them in a nice manner but the two older ones are at the stage of not wanting to help out at all and the older one is going to enter highschool soon so she really needs to start helping around the house alot more.

we all take care of the little one who is nearly 4 but she knows that she gets alot of attention aswell and she will have tantrums when she doesnt get what she wants. me and my mum have both tried to figure out how they can do more around the house.

Answer 1

Use reverse psychology on them.Praise them for anything they do.Tell them you have important chores to do.Ask them if they think they are old enough to help you tackle them.And so on.