So ive been living on my own for a little over a week now and.....?

Question

i've been to three parties with my roomate, cause she's from here, and i dont know anyone, and at every party i go to i end up making out with some random girl, that i have just been introduced to. it's never gone further then a makeout session, but one time it would have if this girls friend hadnt stepped in and been a voice of reason (that i was highly against at the moment). anyway my question is.... is this bad or totally awesome?

Answer 1

I don't think it says much about you, and how the girls see you. They don't see you as special enough to date. Just a quick hook up. Is that really what you want to be? As "awesome" as it may seem... it just subconsciously means that in their minds, you're not good enough for anything else.

Answer 2

Definitely not awesome, but not necessarily bad either.  I don't know what your moral code is; it sounds like you aren't sure what it is either.  I admit I'm old fashioned and don't believe that hooking up, casual s*x it a good for more reasons than I can list. Think std, pregnancy, and on and on. Intercourse may be just another normal physical activity, but think it belongs in a committed relationship, perfectly after vows of marriage.  Look at your life and make your choice.

Answer 3

I say that depends on how old you are and what your religious convictions are.  Personally, I would say it was bad, but I'm a 35 year old Christian and I'm thinking you aren't.  It's all relative.

Answer 4

Sounds like you got playaitis.

Make sure you don't also get the crabs or the weepindada syndrome(that's where you start cryin every time someone congrats you on your impending faudderhood).

G'Luck dogg

Answer 5

Remember these are "random girls" and you need to take action to protect yourself. If they are willing to do this with you then what have they done with others and how many. Be responsible and don't get to caught up in the moment.

Sounds like you are a college freshman. If so make sure to make it to classes too.

Answer 6

Well, dude, it depends on what you mean by bad and by awesome.  In a way it's pretty awesome, I mean all those girls and stuff; but 3 nights of parties aren't really so sensible.  I suggest you space your party-going out a little, as well as your making out at those parties.  You don't want to get a reputation as a man who's just interested in "one thing".

Answer 7

"Is this bad or totally awesome?"

hahaha, amazing. And for sure totally awesome.

I do not know why you should not be able to go out and have fun- and if that includes making out with some random chicks go for it.

I mean, after you've been there for awhile, you may want to tone it down so that those chicks do not recognize you at later parties and tell their friends and so on and so on until you're know as "that guy that is always making out with some random girl" or something.

Oh, and the only other caveat may be that you're spending all your time making out with these chicks and not meeting people, and well, that is no good.

But if you are socializing and making friends (or at least aquantiances) AS WELL as making out with random chicks, then go you for sure.

totally awesome. seriously.