So lets say you spent the night at this guys really out of the way?

Question

farm house with your children after a cookout because you were not about to be dictated as to what you were going to do by your ex husband (stupid decision). Now the guy who had the cook out calls you all the freakin' time even though you didn't sleep with him, thinking he has a chance of getting together with you. How does one get rid of "cook out" guy?

Answer 1

tell him you aren't interested

Answer 2

lol, cook out guy! I am with ^^^ on this one. Up front, to the point, don't drag it. Clean break, like ripping off a band aid.

(sounds good in theory - and this advice is brought to you by Ta dum, "drag it out sally"

Answer 3

Throw up on him every time you see him.

Answer 4

I am sorry but I find this situation you are in to be hilarious.  Just be honest and tell  him you aren't interested.  But really do you get into this type of situation often?  

Answer 5

You don't send him mixed signals, that's how.  

Answer 6

if it were me, id be straight with him and just say, "im sorry but you're just not my type." unless i thought he was the sad type, then i wouldn't say it cause id be afraid he couldn't handle it. in that case id just lie and say, "ive done some thinking and i decided i really don't want to be involved with anyone at this time, but i wish you the best of luck!"  

Answer 7

Tell him your favorite TV show is Dexter, then tell him it must be interesting living on a farm where no one can see what you're doing........

Or say I'm sorry you got the wrong impression. I accepted your generous offer to stay because of my children.