So me and the boyfriend got into a fight last night.?

Question

Well it started over something soo stupid, he always brings up stuff that hurts my feelings, example; Me not being able to afford school right now, or how much i make at work. Just stuff like that, Thats when we started fighting, I brought up how S****y he makes me feel when he brings stuff up like that, and how he shouldint do that if he really likes me, why would you want to hurt someones feelings especially if your in love. Well i started packing all my stuff up last night very quickly told him i was leaving and he kept pulling and telling me to stop packing so i did and i listened to him and he apologized and i was crying etc. Truth is im still mad about it, i cant get over it and i dont know what to do, i kind of want to pack my stuff right now and leave, but should i give him another chance, btw its my birthday today and this is how i feel, should i just leave a 2 year relationship, btw we've never been into a fight like this before. any information would be deeply appriciated. thanks.

Answer 1

Well, there's women in worst relationship.  So, i wouldn't tell you to yes leave, because all relationship do have problems.  he's be in considerate, like most men.  He probably doesn't know you to tell you in a nice way to go back to school or get a better job.  And us women can be so sensitive.  IF this is the only problems you have, just talk about it.  But let it go, do not hold grudges, and today is your birthday so do not be down, BE happy!!!!

Happy birthday!!!!!

for every minute your mad you lose a mintue of happiness

Answer 2

The person you're with should not be showing contempt or kicking you when you're down. That's the opposite of what he should be doing. If you stay, you're telling him that this is acceptable and you'll tolerate it, although you will cry. His apology is meaningless since I think he has a bad habit of disparaging people.

Answer 3

You both need to grow up. Number 1 Let it go its now in the past and holding on to things never ends well. Number 2 are you kidding me you want to leave because of 1 argument wow. Theres girls who are raped and beaten on a daily basis by bad men and then theres guys who go to work all day come back and find out there significant other got bored because he was never there for her and has another man in the house but no I'm sure a little argument is much worse then this. Get over it, youll feel alot better once you think about how much worse things could really be, if he said some things that got to you it happens its normal

Answer 4

my bf use to do the same thing. i was pretty mad over it too. i dont know what to say. there really isnt anything you can do. just sit him down and tell him how you really feel. eventhough he said sorry it doesnt mean he cant lash out again like that. good luck.

Answer 5

Hi Sara, I'm really sorry to hear about that.

its ur birthday today and u shouldnt feel this way, so anyway from the way I see it, u really love him soo much cuz u feel bad cuz he hurts ur feelings, anyway I'm gonna tell u about something, since that its the first time that happens like this and u both been in a relation since 2 years then its not a problem, I think u should give him a second chance, cuz we all human beings and making mistakes is from our nature as a human beings, the most important is that we learn from our mistakes and gain experience.

and from teh way I see it is that he apologize and he feels sorry for it so he knows that what he did was wrong and I'm sure he is going to try to make it up to u.

so just relax, give him a second chance, and today is ur birthday so I'm sure he will take the chance and make it up to u and things will be great between u and him like it was before. and if he did it again after that then he really doesnt deserve u and just leave him but I hope not :)

so cheer up and dont be sad, and wish u all the gd luck from all my heart and u both will be the happiest couples in all over the world :)

Take care and have a nice day

Happy birthday, hope u will have the best birthday ever and by ur love side :)

if u needed any help about anything feel free to contact me at anytime

Best of luck

Answer 6

If you love him then stay and see what happpens.......BUT......the second he treats you like **** again, YOU LEAVE!

Marco!