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So my friend ended our friendship in an e-mail which said...?

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"ummmm... we can't talk anymore....don't ask."

Then he deleted me as one of his friends from his "private" myspace page.

Obviously, I'm heart broken and I don't know "why" or the reason for the termination of our friendship since he said "don't ask."

And to be honest, I noticed during the past week before he ended our friendship, that he hadnt even been opening my email messages which I sent him on myspace.

The fact that he hadnt even been reading my email, and then deleted me from his myspace friends, clearly shows he could CARE LESS about me or any future contact.

When you factor in his blunt e-mail ending our friendship it just adds to the hurt.

He says "dont ask" like thats supposed to settle it. I've never seen him be so cold and mean like that before.

Anyway, I asked this question last night but I like to read people responses.

Is this a normal way to end any friendship?

How would you feel if you got a "one sentence e-mail" like this?

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  1. No it's a complete SOB way to end a friendship. But I think I know something that will help, you have GOT to see the video "Text Message Breakup." About a girl venting over her boyfriend texting to breakup with her.


  2. I guess i had it better than you. I had a three sentence text. But just know this, your friend obviously doesn't care or didn't even think about how you were going to feel after sending you the email. He seemed as if he didn't even have second thoughts about it. If it's a bad understanding, it's too late to fix it. Your "friend" already cut the line and told you this is where your friendship goes; your friend just felt like not being friends with you or he heard something and he decided to trust that groundless rumor instead of you. It hurts how a relationship so important can end so easily and so suddenly, but it'reality. No matter how hard you try to get your friend back; it's too late. Your "friend" is long gone. It's not normal to end a friendship like this; this is the most hurtful way to end a friendship. Your "friend" did just that. Your friend didn't appreciate you as you did for him. Accept the fact and find someone who would trust you, and wouldn't hurt you in such a manner.

  3. Well if i were you, i would feel really heart broken

    If he/she wasn't such a great friend to me, i will forget him/her for ever

    but if he/she is really good, all i do is just wait for a little longer and try to contact him/her again. Maybe he/she just needs some times to settle some things.

    So, it is all depend on you. was he/she a good friend of you?

  4. Well, if I were to get that message I would feel very hurt, and even more if I were to not get over it. Whatever reason he did that was unfair by just ending it in "don't ask".

    I'd say just go to youtube and find the song "Move along by All American Rejects". It always helps me when something goes wrong, don't go after him. Just move along, or you'll end up even more hurt.

  5. You know what kiddo... cut your losses and walk away.

    People who decide not to talk things out are a waste of time. So don't spend another minute getting upset over this.

    Real friends try to work out issues... not walk away. That simple.

  6. I agree with Paramedic Girl.  If this "friend" doesn't even take the time to talk it out with you, when he KNOWS that it's obviously affecting you, then he's not worth it.

    If I got an e-mail like that, of course I would be heartbroken as you are now.  But there are other friends out there, not just that one person.  It's really his/her loss for missing out on a friendship.

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