So my husband just stormed out?

Question

I’ve asked a few questions today mainly about my husband’s stalker & him threatening to divorce me because of how I “handled” the situation. Read if you’re bored. It’s long. I probably wouldn’t but anyway:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ar5Tc7cBpE_KVQPNNZ2ORL7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080831103714AAdumSK

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArJTkhSgVdy.a6ee1Ct5DYnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080831142616AAxsnHe

I tried to talk to him. He kicked the wall & ripped his favorite shirt then blamed it on me LOL! I think what really made him angry was that last little part where I was completely right. He is starting to display some really hostile behavior that I never saw before. The sad thing is that it makes me laugh. I don’t know why. Maybe because I’m not scared of much. I don’t know what it is.

When your husband gets angry do you find comedy in that? I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I should be upset right now but I’m not. I just think it’s funny. I’m not going to make a very good wife, am I?

Answer 1

yeah your a good wife...but even if its funny dont laugh you'll get him more angry...and say theres no need to divorce me because how i handled this... i love you and i just wanted to help.say that to him and if he still gets angry..then s***w him.

Answer 2

Is he using meth too? What do the 3 of them got going on? Why all the sudden is he having anger tantrums? I think there IS something going on that he's not telling you. Why don't you set up a camcorder in the living room or something & see if anything is going on that you don't already know about. Unless if you used meth before it's hard to tell when someone that you know (even if you're around them all day) is using.

Answer 3

As long as you are good between your legs in bed your good to go.

Answer 4

I read everything you wrote including the two other questions.

I honestly think that life is too short to deal with this kind of bullsh!t.

No way would I allow my husband to bring some chick home from some meeting let alone allow her to sit on my couch, call my husband or allow my husband's brothers or some other relative help her.

I would have filed for a restraining order and if she broke it and came over, I would start the video on my camera (has a recording device in it) and call the police and show it to them and the judge eventually and have her locked up for violating the order.

Then, I would sit down with my husband and lay down the law on this.

I find it interesting though that your husband and his brother are helping this nutcase? Obviously there's something more going on here.

If they are both willing to still have contact with her and your husband is upset at you for protecting yourself and taking some addicts side,, I would have no problem saying adios and annul the marriage.

Good Riddance!

You can do better.  

Answer 5

From the way it sounds, you are a great wife.  You have supported your husband and have been there for him through all of this "trouble."

You have every right to be angry and upset about this situation.  What you need to do is tell your husband that he must honor the vows that he made the day he married you, Ie cherish above all others, and get this crackhead b**** out of your lives.

Answer 6

I have read all of your post and something is definatley wrong it is that simple.  If you are laughing about him leaving then you already have it figured out that securiety in this relationship is going to be very unlikely and you are probably getting ready to let go.  That is a good thing if I am right that tells me you have a good head on your shoulders....