So people, how do you keep the flame burnin'?

Question

Do you still do little things for your spouse/significant other to show them you love them? If so, what.

Happy 3 day weekend everyone!:)

Answer 1

I use viagara

Answer 2

I (we) go to our bedroom that is our down alone time away from the kids etc, and we talk and do things to relax and unwind like rubbing each other lightly and sometimes spend cruising the net and find things that make you laugh or smile or just quiet soft music.  I make him homemade cards or will write small notes of encouragement and how much i love him and how much he means to me.  My hubby is the cook in our family and he makes us breakfast in the mornings when kids are at school and he serves me and kisses my neck and just tells me he loves me everyday, and makes me feel good about myself when i don't.  We go on dates as often as we can and we just drives sometimes and he will just stop and buy me a drink or whatever just for the heck of it.   Small things can mean alot.  We have been married for 17+yrs.

Answer 3

you are wise to think about these things before they grow into a major problem with the relationship.  I read a book - to h**l with h**l - which i got on line at barnes and noble.  it is full of great stuff that deals with all kinds of relationships and it has helped me tremendously.  it didn't cost all that much the best i can remember.  anyway, i suggest you read it and then you'll be better equipped to make your relationship never boring, which is good for the both of you.  good luck.

Answer 4

I love to keep my husband in suspense with s**y hairdos weekly and I work out to stay toned and I ALWAYS wear s**y lingerie under my clothes and to bed even if we're not planning s*x.  I keep my body shaved and my pedicure is always done. Honestly, I do it for myself!

I'll even do his pedicure and give him a massage.

    

Answer 5

When ever I am near a Hallmark, I go in and find a mushy card and I leave it somewhere for him to find with a personal message inside. He loves them and he keeps them in a shoe box. Whenever he is feeling down, he gets them out and reads them.