So there's this guy...?

Question

I really like him, it;s this burning passion, again one-way. He's not really my friend, but he's my friend's friend, and my other friend's ex. They both think he's a dork and a jerk. I don't see how they think that.

I have had my friend tell him that I really like him, several times, he never gives straight-forward answers. So, i don't know.

I do know that he still likes my friend, who is his ex. But she doesn't like him at all.

I can can't really talk to him in person, but I am able to talk thru text.

My friend will get his number for me. I'll tell him that I just wanna be friends, if he wants to, if he doesn't then I'll leave him alone, bcuz i just don't kno how he feels about me and i don't wanna be bugging him.

Assuming he said, yeah, we should be friends, how do i try to lure him? I'm not very pretty or anything, at least I don't think so, my friends think I am tho...

Any suggestions??

Answer 1

hmmmmmmmmm.................................

Answer 2

1. friends don't date each others ex's!

2. if she's ok with it good luck !

- the way to get a guy is not thru being pretty it's thru not being fake!!! =]

Answer 3

flirt a little, not a lot. drop hints that you like him and if you play it safe, he might be attracted to you. smile at him, talk to him when you can. laugh at his jokes. always be pleasant and sweet around him. guys love girls like that because they want to learn more about those "sweet innocent girls". ha ha, it may sound lame but it really is true.

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Answer 4

you shoud ttly ask him out, but first on txt get him to talk to you,  once he figures out that looks dont matter and that your the most awesome person he has ever met, ask him out. but try to not get too bummed if he doesnt say yes.  

Answer 5

well if your friends tell him you like him and he doesn't give straight answers

he more than likely doesn't like you

not to bum you out

but guys are pretty straight forward

Answer 6

i have had this happen to me also! ok so pick a random day to text him and start getting into some conversations. then be like i have a random question. and ask him who he likes.. he will be like idk  . u? u say some other guy that you happen to also  like and someone else. he will be like who is the someone else. and u have to say  ill only tell if you tell me who you like.

it goes places form there. i have done this many times before

tell me if it works!

good luck to you

Answer 7

Get a bf of your own and stop salivating someone else's ex. It's not ethical. He knows it..

Answer 8

3 things!!

1. be yourself

2.be honest

3. be open minded ..like ask questions and talk about anything