So there's this guy......?

Question

we dated in eighth grade for a couple months and i broke up with him because he was a troublemaker. no we're sophomores in h.s. and i think i still have feelings for him. he's changed[i think]. my friends tell me to follow my heart, but i don't want it to turn out the way it did last time. any advice? thanks

Answer 1

just ask him out, if u dont try u may never no.

Answer 2

I understand exactly how you feel. My only advice for you is to do what you're intelligent friends said. FOLLOW YOU"RE HEART! But there are different avenues to take in doing so. You could jump right back into the relationship and have it end up how it did before, only this time you're hurt way more than the first time, you could ignore the feeling and wonder "what if" for ever, or you can take your time rekindle a friendship and see how it goes! Good luck! P.S Make sure you show him who's boss, make sure he understands he needs to respect you and earn your trust!

Answer 3

let ur heart lead the way

Answer 4

I think it's also important to ask if he has feelings for you.

If he does, then I suggest you go on a date or two.  There's nothing worse then regretting not acting on a feeling.  If it doesn't work out and he hasn't changed, you will know that you're doing the right thing when you end the relationship.

Best of luck in your quest for love! : ]

Answer 5

take a chance but be ready for anything.  

Answer 6

you're just a sophomore so if something does go wrong its not like that will be the last guy that you have a chance with. and if you think he has changed then go for it. and if he hasn't then just end it.  

Answer 7

Do what you think is right talk to him for a bit make sure he has changed and if you think he is right for you after talking to him do what your friends told you to do and follow your heart.

Rory

Answer 8

a lot can change in a few years.  just get to know each other again.  You may find your feelings are just something that will pass when you see he hasn't changed enough...or it may become something great if it's meant to be.

Answer 9

uh let it go.. theres plenty of fish in the sea and getting back with the same person expecting things to be different is like watching a horrible movie twice hoping itll be better the 2nd time

Answer 10

JUST ASK HIM OUT AGAIN FOR GOD'S SAKE!  

Answer 11

If you truly want to be with him do what's right start a conversation with him in the hallway or at lunch and then when you comfortable around him you'll most likely have the courage to ask him out

Answer 12

hang around him and act all flirty and stuff. maybe he will ask YOU out.

Answer 13

If you think he's changed there should be obvious signs that he is no longer a troublemaker. If he shows the signs he's changed, you might give him a chance. Just like in any relationship, be aware of warning signs that the relationship is not healthy or safe. You certainly don't need drama.

People change from 8th to 10th grade, but trust your instincts. There are plenty of guys in the sea. Check out www.loveisrespect.org for tips on healthy relationships.

Answer 14

imma 16 yr old guy, and im way different then wen i was in eight grd.

ppl change over time and if u have feelings for someone then you should let him know, you should give him a second chance

Good luck : ]

Answer 15

Don't do anything.

Answer 16

start talking to him again and find out if he's changed.

see if you still feel anything when you guys hang out, if you do.

if you like him, go out with him, whats there to hurt?

if you don't like him anymore break up with him for good.

good luck.

Answer 17

dont just jump into asking him out.Get to know him.see how he is see what kind of friends he hangs out with.im sure he has changed.alot of people change as they go into high school.i know this for a fact.do what makes you feel at eaze.everything will be ok.

Answer 18

give him the hint you like him then wait for him to ask you out. he prob has changes since 8th grade and if not then break up with him

Answer 19

i dont think he'll want to get back with you. sorry. but if he likes you still then you have a chance

Answer 20

your friends are right, -follow your heart

Answer 21

take a chance

but dont go in expecting it to go the way it did last time and dont go in it expecting it to be different

anything could happen

good luck gurl!