So theres this dude and i dont know what to do with him?

Question

I've only seen him twice and i cant wait to see him again. The first time he was already hugging me and kssing me on the cheek and i didnt mind because i liked the affection that he gave me. Second time i see him, we're making out. he went straight for it and i couldn't resist and he kept kissing me all night we almost did it! I havent seen him ever since but i dont know what to do the next time i see him. i think he only wants to have s*x with me but he tells me things that make me think he actually likes me. should i just go for it or give it time? btw i'm a virgin :/ and i think i only like the attention he gives me not really him but i think im starting to.

Answer 1

For someone you really don't really know that much, try to straighten things out with him. In fact, before you even allow him to do those things to you, see first where you stand in his life. Are you officially together or what? A question like that would do.

You're a girl. Virginity is very important. Actually, I believe we can't just give it all away to one guy we're not even sure we're gonna be with for the rest of our life. Girls today should be smart enough when it comes to the topic of s*x - premarital s*x. It's a disgrace. It means you can't always control things that's why many dreams get ruined easily.

I think you should set your own limitations during a situation like this. You can't just let your feelings cloud your way of thinking. Use your brains, otherwise you might end up the loser here if things go out of hand...

Answer 2

I always go with the rule 'never have s*x with anyone you aren't prepared to marry'. If you feel this strongly about him then go for it. If you don't then don't bother. That's my personal opinion anyway.

Answer 3

You say you think he's only after s*x. What's gonna happen afterwords?

You can't keep doing it just to keep him around. =/

Answer 4

Just slow it down a little bit. Hug, cuddle kiss him, all the good and nice stuff. Get to know him a little better before losing your V plates on what may be a complete stranger.

And if you like him so much, try to catch up with him more often! Then you would know him better!

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