So these boys made me feel really trashy today?

Question

I met this boy at my high school who seemed pretty cool. But as I started to actually TALK to him, he was disgusting. All he talked about was s*x. Whatever he said, it would be about s*x. Whenever I talked, he would switch it around and make it about s*x again. His friend kept saying I have pretty eyes and s**y legs and c**p like that and it pissed me off so bad. (I'm not asking this just to tell you that either.)

They treated me like I was an object that they could say anything to or about. I smoked a cigarette with one of them and I feel even trashier. I'm not even that kind of girl! I feel so sad and mad at the same time. I don't know what I'm going to do tomorrow. Should I tell them to leave me alone or what do you think I should say?

Answer 1

Honey, it is so obvious that you are uncomfortable around them, which is a very big reason to leave them.

You shouldn't have to endanger yourself just to hang out with them, if it's to be cool, then don't be. Smoking isn't hot, honey, it's sad. Later on in your life you could regret some decisions you make with these boys, from what I am seeing, and it could very much lead to sexual things.

I'm sorry if you feel connected to them somehow but you should leave, they aren't what you call "gentlemen", they are filthy mongrols. They need to stay away from you.

Hope that helped. :D

Answer 2

yes, stay away from them they haven't grown up yet, dont feel bad about yourself - you didn't know what they were like when you met them.

Answer 3

Don't bother talking to them or spending any time with them again. They should eventually learn that this sort of behaviour will only repel women from them.

Answer 4

Nothing ignore them.    If they see it's bothering you, they will keep on doing it.  Just remember, always laugh and smile because you're a female and you got what they want!!!

Answer 5

Their goal in life is obviously just about s*x right now.  Every woman will be objectified in her life, sadly.  It's one of those things I will probably never get over with our society. The extreme worship of the superficial.

I would just completely ignore them from now on.  And you smoking a cigarette with one of them does NOT make you trashy, hun.  If you were having s*x with one behind the building... that would be different.  You were disgusted by their behavior and I would either let it be known or completely ignore them - not worth your time.

Or just buy them a Playboy and tell them to grow up ;)

Answer 6

You should avoid those guys but not before telling them why, their behavior was rude and immature to say the least, and if no one tells them that can be very off putting and even hurtful to others not only you, so really it would be like a public service to all if you would just be honest with them.and let them know why you choose not to be around them.

Answer 7

Avoid them.  Never let folks into your life who don't have the sensitivity to respect you.