So this guy got a cancer nd being really depressed by refusing of the girl he loves.howto help him go thru it?

Question

today he told me went to see the doctor nd was told only had about 8 months to live. like i said he's getting really really depressed recently, since it's ME said NO to his love as in a special way. becuz i already have sumone to love and i do love him. i've been telling the guy that i just like him as a good friend, but it didnt work out for him, still.

i try to talk to him to help him live the way he used to, it was so happy nd he's a strong guy. but neither this works..

so today he left me sum words " i love you, and i live for you. without you i got nothing to fight for." nd " i dont know what to do for the rest time "...im really sad about this, and i know it's becuz of me made him this way. he wants me to be his gf but i know i wont, i wont let him live in a lie nd be with him for the probable 8 months following. i want to see him live as happily as before. but i got no clue what i cud/shud do to help him pull this thru.

so now im putting this situation here, any one cud help me plz?

Answer 1

Be there for him every day and love him as much as you can in a Platonic way... 8 months to live is harsh, and he needs as many friends as he can get.

Answer 2

I don't know how to say what I think without sounding cruel or heartless so I'll only say that you have done nothing to feel guilty about.  He knows you love someone else and that's his bad luck.  Do you know for sure that he has cancer and about 8 months to live?