So today i had s*x for the first time...i have questions...?

Question

So i bleed, like and it hurt like h**l, like i seriously thought i was going to scream. will it ever get to a point where it wont hurt so bad. like after i went to the bathroom i bleed and it kind of looked like a period, but i know it wasnt. He was using a condom i made sure of that! But like my leg was twitching and my left arm got tingly and numb and so did my right hand. but that only lasted for like a min or so.

Will how many times does it take to where it doesnt hurt anymore?

like it felt good but hurt at the same time.

after i was so confused and shocked but happy at the same time?

it felt right, it really did.

Oh and just fyi im 17.

Answer 1

its always going to feel like a lot of pressure, because thats like the best part of it, is the pressure. But it wont hurt as bad after the first time, just because you now have your hymen broken.  

Answer 2

it always hurts the first time. It will get better. After the second or third time it will feel really good. But bleeding is normal. Ur hyme (or how ever u spell it) broke. The first time I had s*x I never let him go all the way in it hurt way to bad. He never even broke my hyme. So don't worry and always use a condom.  

Answer 3

It should never hurt that bad!  Make sure he uses some sort of lubrication and takes it REALLY slow so he doesn't hurt you.  Make sure you TELL him what you need.  That's the biggest mistake women make and why so many don't even enjoy s*x.

Answer 4

well, yeah for the first time it's going hurt like h**l.but the next time you have s*x it won't hurt at all.  

Answer 5

cool im 17 too ^^ haha

hmm well i think that's normal cause you kind of shiver.twitch when you are nervous or all pumped up. I have only done it twice but I STILL hurts when I do it, hopefully after 5 times it wont anymore.  

Answer 6

It doesn't sound like a good experience at all and once you let them do it, they will want to every time. Guys at your age don't know what they are doing. It is just wham bam thank you m'am. So I doubt you when you said it felt good.

I'm glad you used a condom. Some girls do bleed a little the first time but it sounds like you were a little beat up. You don't have to have s*x. Don't let anyone pressure you. You should only have s*x when you feel ready for it, and then make the guy work for it and try to give you some pleasure. That's my advice, from a woman that was in a similar situation a long time ago.

Answer 7

that was probably your hymen popping.

and the nerves of your v****a lead to random places in your body.

it could be that you are not stimulated enough.

foreplay.

or it could be that his p***s is too big.

Answer 8

oh wow i lost it at 15 and yea it hurts i understand and the bleeding will stop

like it stops hurting after like just a few times

but it also depends on how rough the guy is

when he thinks hes the **** he gets cocky and it hurts worse

Answer 9

well you sound ready..but i guess your nerves are totally normal. its ok it will get better the trick is to RELAX :)

Answer 10

oh first off... this forum is about pregnancy

secondly... it will hurt the first few times but you wont bleed. you bleed because he "pops your cherry" or the hymen. after about 6 or 7times it wont hurt at all anymore.