So what am I supposed to do now???????????????

Question

I feel so broken down and empty....whatever hope I once had is gone.......I am so wounded I cant even get up...so whats to hope for>>??? whats to even be for??

okay guys I am serious...and I need some advice that makes sense....so help me out here...please

I am having a horrible night!

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Ok I'm really Captain Sensible and I'm here to help you.

The first thing you need is a mushroom omelet. If that doesn't do it for you ...get back to me. I have many more remedies,

Answer 3

What is wrong?  Call a friend, get out and do something you love doing. Go see a movie. Don't sit home and be depressed. Treat yourself to an icecream sundae if all else fails I am so sorry you are depressed hope things get better for you.

Answer 4

go to church

Answer 5

Stop and get a grip! Your note is an example of your ability to clearly express yourself. You are in a crisis that is only temporary in the big picture. See the future with you included. Hope has a way of re-occuring. Only YOU have to be there to experience it!

Make the conscious choice to not allow loneliness and despair to overwhelm your existance. You have that choice!  

Answer 6

Breathe.

Remember who you are and Whose you are.

Breathe.

Thank God for the breath of life in you.

Breathe.

Ask God to put into your heart the reason you must continue.

Breathe.

Thank God for His counsel.

Continue.

Answer 7

Try some hot chocolate.

Go to this site: freerice.com and play the word game. Every word you get right, it donates ten grains of rice to the hungry. So there, you're doing something useful.

Some nights are like this. It will be better in the morning. Hang on until then. I'd be happy to email if you like.

I was a bit snide earlier, sorry. But I've always checked your questions because they've interested me. :)

Edit: No problem. And yes, it's legitimate--I checked after I found it. It actually scored an article in the New York Times.

Answer 8

Um, a few more details????

Answer 9

I don't know what's happened to you so i'm not really sure what to tell you to do. all I can do is tell you what i do when stuff goes badly or I'm just having a horrible day. I meditate. It has always helped me. GOOD LUCK.

BRIGHT BLESSINGS TO YOU!!!

Answer 10

well, know that God loves you even if u dont love him and i am prayin for you so dont do anything that could hurt u and read a bible and pray

Answer 11

Connect with some other Moms in your area, try using http://www.momcafe.net/Home

I know a Mom of three who was having trouble connecting with others in her new  area and found some friends right in her town via that site.

Strike up conversations with other Moms at the playground.  Join MOPS groups at Churches.

Look at how easy it is to talk to "us" here online- you will find some friends who can give you real hugs.

Answer 12

As Long As You're Still Alive, There's Still Hope.  Just Believe Its Still Possible For Things To Get Better.  I'd Suggest Taking Some Time To Relax And Clear Your Head.  

Answer 13

((((((((The Mommy JEZEBEL)))))))))

Answer 14

Little is by chance, with every hardship comes an opportunity for growth. Know that within you is the Greatest Power in the universe, That which can sustain you through the greatest of hardships, seek It out.  Loving everyone always makes me feel better.

Answer 15

Whenever I feel down I either go to a coffee shop, sit with my latte, and people-watch. This always makes me feel good.

Or I have Canvas and I start splattering paint all over. :)

Answer 16

My heart goes out for you.

Don't give up hope though; it doesn't matter what it feels like now, things will and do always change and eventually for the better.

If you believe in prayer I strongly suggest it. If not, just try to think of good thoughts and if possible try to do something nice for someone else.

Caring about other's is God way of getting our mind off ourselves and in doing so when we take care of other, others come along and take care of us.

You have your health, you have a home, (I assume,) you have a smart and creative mind. You have much to consider as good and fortunate.

Take care, and God bless.  

Answer 17

I have felt like this before. I don't think there is much you can do. Maybe invite a family member round or a friend and have a laugh?

Answer 18

Lethargy is a symptom of depression.  Try a nutritional supplement called 5-HTP.

Answer 19

Pour your heart out to God.

And only think on good things. Refuse to take hold of "bad" thoughts and emotions.

Php 4:6  Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

Php 4:7  And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Php 4:8  Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

2Co 10:5  Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;

Answer 20

If our life is without meaning

Then so must be our dispair

There is a relentless beauty in our darkest hours.

I will tell you a secret.

The gods envy us.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4CRkpBGQ...

Answer 21

Try some meditation seriously the chakra awakening meditations will help you quickly. You can find them at enkiea.org. Also there are plenty of other meditations that will help you feel better. Trust me I have felt like this before. Another site that has many more good and helpful meditations and helpful advice is www.joyofsatan.org hope this helps. That site has helped me feel better many times when I am down.  

Answer 22

its late.  go to bed and get a good night sleep.  lot of times this will help .  hope things look and feel better in the morning.  

Answer 23

Keep praying and the Lord will bring you through.  Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.  There is light at the end of the tunnel.  Jesus is glorious.  He is there.  He loves you with an everlasting love.

P.S. Read the Psalms, they help immensely!

Answer 24

I would suggest you finding a new church home so that you will be able to surround yourself with strong Christians. I find a lot of comfort reading the Word of God and He always lifts my spirit

Answer 25

who  can give you advice when we don't know your problem? everytime i get on here, i swear, there's an idiot or two who always does this.

why did you bother typing this if you're so wounded and can't get up!

Answer 26

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation.... So here is a the words to a beautiful  and comforting song... which is also an awesome poem. I hope you enjoy it!

COME TO JESUS

Weak and wounded sinner

Lost and left to die

O, raise your head, for love is passing by

Come to Jesus

Come to Jesus

Come to Jesus and live!

Now your burden's lifted

And carried far away

And precious blood has washed away the stain, so

Sing to Jesus

Sing to Jesus

Sing to Jesus and live!

And like a newborn baby

Don't be afraid to crawl

And remember when you walk

Sometimes we fall...so

Fall on Jesus

Fall on Jesus

Fall on Jesus and live!

Sometimes the way is lonely

And steep and filled with pain

So if your sky is dark and pours the rain, then

Cry to Jesus

Cry to Jesus

Cry to Jesus and live!

O, and when the love spills over

And music fills the night

And when you can't contain your joy inside, then

Dance for Jesus

Dance for Jesus

Dance for Jesus and live!

And with your final heartbeat

Kiss the world goodbye

Then go in peace, and laugh on Glory's side, and

Fly to Jesus

Fly to Jesus

Fly to Jesus and live!

Answer 27

The sun will come up tomorrow.

Answer 28

Can't be any worse than this guys night:

http://www.near-death.com/storm.html

Answer 29

I don't know you too well, but you seem like a very nice person.  I'm sorry you are feeling so low.  I realize you feel you are out of hope.  I've been there myself.  I guess I just was stubborn enough that I wasn't going to let it destroy me.  Don't let it destroy you.  Be sad.  Be what you need to be right now, but don't let it defeat you.  Feel free to email me if you wish.  

Answer 30

Read the bible, go to church. God can be really helpful.

Hope you get better hon.

Answer 31

Things'll be better in a few days.

You're just pms-ing.

Stay away from the carbs.  I know they make you feel good, but they really don't help us women.  Not one bit.  Unless they're whole grain, and in reasonable quantities.