Social services want to take my baby away can someone please help.?

Question

my boyfriend Just got pulled up last nite for drinking and smoking weed. The cops told him since he has a baby social services will come to the house and if they see anything wrong they will take her away and but her in a foster home. My daughter is only 8 months old. She is in the best care ever. She is treated like a princess. what can I do to show that to the social workers. And I need to know if they really will come and when.. Please some one help me.

Answer 1

Refuse to allow any access to your home without legal representation. I mean it. Don't even allow them to see the baby or even step over the threshhold.  Then call a lawyer.   I've known too many people whose children are taken without cause because they don't know the law.  Ultimately, the children are returned because there was no cause in the first place, but had they not allowed access without legal representation, the children would not have been taken in the first place.  

Alternatively, move out of your boyfriend's home with the baby. He's certainly a poor excuse for a father. Imagine if the baby was in the car and he crashed it!

Answer 2

They are looking for evidence that the baby is well cared for and you are not allowing drugs around your baby.

Was he arrested at your house? There are many people arrested for weed and drinking that CPS, does come and investigate.

My advice to you is to stop allowing people in your life that can jeopardize, the future of your daughter.

Answer 3

a few questions if you really believe your baby is in the best care:

1. why are you so worried?

2. why do you need to know when they will come?

3. why did you choose a stoner to be your childs father?

Answer 4

if she is really in the best care they will see for themselves they will come to your home look at every room and judge for themselves they also will want you to sign a release so they can speak to her doctor and then will probably give you a drug test i hope your clean because if not this will create problems for you but if you have family members such as grandparents or aunts and uncle you can grant them temp custody so the child doesn't have to enter a foster home this happened to my niece they gave custody to her parents and when they realize the mother was clean they gave the kids back

good luck  

Answer 5

If you're a great parent, kick your man out of the house and you will not have a problem with social services.  It's him they are worried about.

Answer 6

If she really is in the best care, they will see that whenever they drop in, why would you need to know when?

Answer 7

They cannot just take your baby away because of what mess your boyfriend got himself into ..your either not telling us everything or your making this up, the police would not even mention social services in this situation unless YOU were with him when he got arrested, i suggest you get rid of him and think of your baby

Answer 8

The social workers will see that you take good care of her when they see your home and her condition. You don't have to show them anything. They know what to look for. Keep your BF away from the baby. He is a bad influence. Make sure you file for child support if you haven't already. Throw him out and make him clean up.