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Socializing with people problems?

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Ok well im goin into ma sr. yr. in highschool and i still feel that i am a shy person and im not myself around people. I want to get rid of this problem because i know that if i can be myself i will definitely make a lot more friends and be happy with myself. I know i can make people laugh, I can make them have a good time but my shyness is blocking this from happening. To begin with im shy when it comes to meeting new people and talking to girls, and im usually shy with people that arent afraid to be themselves and socialize a lot, im not shy with other shy people.Sometimes when im being shy and i dont want to, i get like a spark from inside of me thats telling me say something and i get all pumped up and everything but at the last second i always hold back. Also, i think some of the problems with me being shy is that i have sweaty palms and a dent in my chest and this affects my confidence like, i think that if it wasnt for that id have no problems with being myself but i think that holds me back a lil. Also most people that i have contact with usually think im a weird person because im so shy and when they talk to me i look like an idiot as i talk back to them .but when im talking to someone on myspace or textin someone i have no problem being myself only when im talkin to some one in person... Now i dnt wanna be like this anymore hopefully yall can help me a lil

and i just notice the way i wrote this whole thing might sound a lil confusin but oh well hah thanks .. oh and 1 ques. (do u guys think that if i write an about me on my myspace it will help me be less shy and make people realize that i aint wierd?) thanks

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  1. you just have to do your best and be yourself without "trying to hard" and going overboard.  start small around people that you are the most comfortable around and then branch out to others.  good luck!

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