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Question

My son who has completed his 7th std. not willing to continue his education and he is rather poor in his studies too..but he is much more interested to read vedam (Sanskrit) we are going to put him in vedapatasala in this month...(our ancestors are Progiths) the only problem is, he is not used to those culture what they have to be..because we are not that much orthodox..now am afraid whether he will adjust that situation or will he come back...and to be frank he is not good in his discipline..he needs some one to help him out in all his duties..thats my worry...will he be able to adjust there...please ..provide me a good solution..

Answer 1

The best solution for parents is to let their children do what they are intereted in & I think that makes a lot of difference as far as studies are concerned. If we force them to do what we want then you see they will just do it without any interest & from there onwards their life takes a different turn. Let him do what he is interested in, not you. If you allow him then he will have a positive frame of mind & can succeed in life in his own way. Always have a positive thinking rather than being a pessimist & definitely the result will be positive. As far as discipline is concerned, I think he needs some time & help him in being disciplined, b'coz he has just completed his 7th std. Parents are the best teachers, guides, trainers & everything else, you don't need an external help to make him disciplined or so.

Answer 2

he will manage it...........

when matter comes to discipline he is just a kid ..............

he will learn discipline within 3 years before completing 10th

class.......................

Answer 3

A 7th standard student can be taught all disciplines and punctuality kind of things if you try a little, because this is the age at which childred are willing to learn more things; otherwise it will be late afterwards. Too much kindness towards children spoils them. Don't give them much choice at this age. But still if it's not popssible and he is adament to learn in Sanskrit, and you think he will not be able to adjust to the vedic kind of situations; then spend some extra bucks to bring the Sanskrit Gurus to your home to teach him all the things of Vedapatasala