Some freinds advie pleasee. im in a bit of a pickle?

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okay...here i go, im sorry if this is going to be long :]

okay so im friends with the "popular group" and i have maybe 2 bestfriends in that group. its kind of like a clique thing. and there is this girl, one of my best friends that backstabs me most of the time, and she thinks shes all that because everything on her has to be Abercrombie and Fitch. Shes also really mean to the "nerds" is what she calls them, thats how most of my friends are, but im not like that.

There is this girl, lexi who is moving to florida this month, and she is like the most popular girl in the school pretty much and she has her own little clique, and she has a lot of friends. All of my friends are friends with her, except me. and today i text my friend (the bestfirend i was talking about) that im kind of glad shes moving. and my "bestfriend" texts me back saying wow thats mean, how could you say that? and i was suprised. and all of a sudden i get a text from lexi saying that she wanted to invite me to her going away party but she probably isnt going to becasue i "say stuff behind her back". and i realize that my "BESTFRIEND" told her every thing i said!

I really dont want to be friends with her again but if im not friends with her shes going to get EVERYBODY to turn on me because everyone loves her or whatever, and she really isnt that "loveable". so if im not friends with that clique i wont have any friends and plus theyre going to be talking about me behind my back. keep in mind that this is a small school, and this is the 8th grade we're talking about...

Answer 1

Your so called best friend doesn't really seem like a friend you can count on and trust so why would you want to be around someone  who purposely loves to hurt you? In my opinion I would leave her and her drama behind shes not worth it. So what is she is popular and most people like her or know her. She obviously doesn't care too much about you if she is going behind your back and starting drama. Tell her the truth that the friendship isn't working out for you. If she starts talking behind your back then let her don't worry that means she just has no life and hasn't really matured yet which most girls never will. Meet new people who will respect you for who and don't treat you like dirt. You need to be strong in this situation and stand up for yourself otherwise prepare for more drama heading your way. Who cares what people think its what you think that really matters. Karma what goes around comes around.

P.s (Haters are your biggest fans!)

Best of luck!