Some help me!?

Question

Ok i am getting married august 30th and the thing is my father passed away last year and I am going to have my future father in law walk me down the aisle and do the father daughter dance but i cant choose a song... its between

1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpaBQPspLXg

2. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKEA6T4egfc

3. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Darn9sRp8JQ

4. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IxiJJBvZnRI

which one sounds the best for my situation? or suggestions!!

Answer 1

I Fully agree with the first answer! But ultimately its your day...FORGET FORMALITY !!!! DO WHAT YOU FEEL HAPPY WITH. I have also seen huge floral arrangements in HONOR of the loved ones that passed and they printed it on the programs.

Answer 2

I gotta agree! Is your father in law really really the right person? It should really be someone from your family.

Answer 3

The third is cool. Do you have an uncle or brother to give you away though? Even your mom could do it.

Answer 4

I would choose someone else to walk you down the isle...or walk by yourself as I am doing.  If your dad passed away last year then your fiance's father hasn't been playing the role of your father very long.  He can't replace your father but he can be a major part of your future.  Your mom can walk you down the isle, or carry a piece of your father with you as you walk alone (his bible, or suit, or anything special that reminds you of him.)

Answer 5

You know, I wonder if the "future father-in-law" is the appropriate person to be "giving your hand in marriage" to HIS son....don't you have a mom, or brother, or favorite uncle to do the honors from your side of the family? I know it's just a ceremonial thing but traditions get passed down through the years because they work, they're symbolic, etc. As for the dance, sure, go ahead. Dance your first dance with your new husband and then have the deejay announce that "Now, Mr.... will have the pleasure of dancing with his new daughter-in-law, a lovely new addition to the family". but don't call it the "father-daughter dance" please. It would dishonor your fathers' memory,Edit: it might seem fine to you but I'm sure that older members of your own family would be a bit upset that it would look like you have totally forgotten your departed dad so soon after his death. Really. Please don't do it no matter how fond you are of your new father-in-law-to-be. Think of others who are also mourning.