Some more boy trouble...Girls & Guys, you are welcome to answer this question. :)?

Question

Ok. Me and my friend have known this dude, let's call him Bubba, haha, for about our whole lives. Well, we all see each other once a year, because we all go to different schools in different states. He's a year older than us, but her, age doesn't matter.

Now, this year, I suddenly saw that he's got a s**y body! Heehee, we went swimming :)

I realized I like him. No, not like, but *love*. I told him that I liked him, and my friend likes him too.

My friend is one of my best friends, so I don't mind them going out, but he just doesn't know what to do. I've been through a rejection once, and it nearly cost me my life.

Please help.

PS. I've been talking with him on the phone for about everyday.

My friend doesn't care if he likes me instead. The only thing is that

he doesn't know who he likes. Guys: What would *you* be thinking if you were Bubba?

Girls: How would you feel if Bubba told you he likes you. What about if he likes your friend better?

-Alexandra Taylor.

Answer 1

Tricky situation. And honestly i think it's one you best stay away from. In my opinion you're risking losing friends. Get together with the guy and maybe your friend won't take it too well, regardless of what she's saying now.

Also, you say you love this guy .... just after seeing his body?  And you only see him once a year? Sorry but thats not love.  

Answer 2

ok you could ask him trust ne i bet ur gorgeous and funny go up to him and ask him out if he says no then ignore and then he will c how much he misses u  

Answer 3

You said you only see each other once a year and you live indifferent states so do you think a relationship would really work?

I'd probably pick the one, if either,  I thought it would work out the best with, after talking to them both for a while