Somebody help a dude with girl trouble?

Question

how do you reinvent yourself to get girls to like you but then again should you? I liked this girl but she turned me down last year (that's why I made this question).

Answer 1

This is something that shouldn't be done my friend. Reinvent yourself? If you did do that and somehow it managed to work and you became this chics bf, then eventually she would see the real you that she wasn't interested in. There are plenty of girls out there that are going to like you for you and not someone else. Don't sweat it over one girl. It's not worth it. There will be more my friend!!!

Answer 2

You should not change yourself to impress anyone, let alone to attract a girl.  Then she would be liking you but not for the real you, you know?  Just be yourself and the right person will love you just the way you are!

Answer 3

I would buff up.  There is no need to change your personality and there are no drawbacks to being physically fit.  (i don't know if you are or not)  So if she is impressed by your muscles, then good, if not then who cares.  You can't lose.

Also, i would say she isn't the girl for you if she hasn't already showed an interest, but there is no downside to trying, just don't get hung up on her.

Answer 4

you shouldn't change for anyone but yourself, if you think you need a change go for it but don't do it just for a girl, find someone who likes you for you

Answer 5

I agree with the other responses posted to your question you shouldn't change for anybody else but yourself and that is as simple and as complicated as it should get. You should date somebody or find a soul mate that you are compatible with that has similar interests and respects you for who you are. One thing you need to know is that you have to like yourself before anybody else will like you. Date a girl that has a sense of humor of a good personality that you can feel comfortable with as well.